I got out of a long term relationship (3 years) a couple months ago with a girl who was so self centered. I knew that about a year and a half into the relationship that it wasn't working but I kept trying while she found every excuse to keep on being her selfish self. In the beginning she was great, but as the months passed she became a different person entirely. This being my first long term relationship (currently 22) ever I was afraid to end it, but like i stated above I finally worked up the courage to break it off a couple months ago. I'm currently at a point in my life where I'm happy again and I'm glad to have "me" time. But I seriously miss having someone to talk to and do things with (girlfriend wise). I have plenty of friends with whom I talk to daily, but I see them in these happy loving relationships and I'm envious. Im a hopeless romantic haha. I'd like for once in my life to find a girl with similar interests that don't change once were past the "honeymoon" phase. On a side note I think the "honeymoon" phase is bullshit and doesn't have to end but that's a rant for another time. Plus I'm horrible with women, I'm a nervous wreck. I live in a big college town that's fullllll of girls looking for one night stands, which I'm not into. I don't know where to look and I'm not sure what to do.