I started a really stupid fight with my boyfriend over me not liking him playing on my tomb raider save (we're not living together atm) and after that he refused to talk to me for 3 hours til I had to go home. He gave me a kiss on the cheek goodbye and when I was at home he texted me saying he did not want us to phone at night anymore, not want to game with me ever, no texting for three days, no videocalls for 5 days and not see eachother in person from 4 to 5 weeks. Now I know he has a lot of stress at his job as a cook and sometimes just snaps and sort of throws tantrums, I accept that, I'm very unstable when it comes to anxiety, jealousy and depression and he accepted me. We do love eachother and really get along usually. We've been dating for 8 months and I really don't wanna lose him. Yet it's the first time he said he didn't want to see me for so long and I'm so so scared he means it and I'm trying not to freak out or fall into a depression and do something really stupid... I'm just so scared he's sick of me. He gave me the ring from his father he got after he died 10 years ago and promised to never leave me and marry me. I don't know how to deal with him saying these things about not seeing me... I've never had a boyfriend before and struggled with self harm and depression before. I just need someone to comfort me. An opinion of someone that's not involved. Help.