I think everyone should just enjoy sex without being ashamed. Especially when it comes to how many partners a person has or had. I've always compared having sex with a person with test driving a car. You like the way it looks and sounds and the specs but will you like how it drives? I've met gorgeous guys and the turn off was the sex and I've met guys that where amazing in the sac but they weren't relationship material. I've had 3 friends with benefits at the same time and they all knew exactly what we where, and they knew about each other. They all had different interest and they were all so different from each other. One was very mature gentleman, another was a musician who always made up excuses about why he doesn't have his own place and sleeping on his brothers couch and the other was a gamer that I would game with every week. Having multiple partners gave me a chance to know exactly what I like and what I don't like. It gave me experience. I truly believe that if I didn't have these experiences I wouldn't have met husband. Since being with different men, I appreciate my husband and all the things he has accomplished. So don't ever let someone bring you down because of your past and current sex life. Have fun and stay protected.