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I waited 5 years to be with the man of my dreams. We have been together for over a year now and everything felt perfect until a friend of ours became kind of my best friend. He compliments me and tells me what a nice person I am in his opinion, things my boyfriend never does. He got a girlfriend but it's not really working between them and we seem to develop feelings for one another. We chat everyday for hours on end and because my boyfriend only comes around one day a week for a couple of hours I've seen this friend a lot more than him and enjoyed our time more than the time with my bf. I am scared because I feel that we are falling in love and moreover I think even if he would make a better boyfriend I would lose all faith in love if we chose to quite our relationships to be together because not even the love of my life could make me happy for a long time. I mean... who else could? Now I feel like I am betraying my bf even though I did nothing and I fear to lose him because my friend showed me how many things I am missing in our relationship and how many things actually aren't working as great as I like to pretend to myself...

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  • Look...its pretty simple here, if you like that kind of attention and your boyfriend is not giving you that, well you either tell him so and if he doesnt fix it, well then please leave him and stay with the guy that will make you feel loved the way you want it.

  • Relationships aren't like in the movies or story books, they are work, they require effort, and communication. I think it's time you put away your feelings and interest for this friend and focus on the person, and relationship, you're in a relationship with.

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