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I've always wanted to have a serious relationship, and I've actually had a lot of opportunities, but I always feel scared of letting someone I love down, and that I'll never be a good boyfriend, so I push them away. This makes me unhappy and quite lonely, but still, I don't know how to work this out :(

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  • if you are worrying you wont be good it means that you will care and try. go for it! make a person happy

  • It takes a lot to trust someone and be vulnerable with them. You'll be afraid to show your true colors when you start dating someone, that's natural. The longer you're with someone, the closer you can get, and the easier it will be to let your guard down. Take things slowly, have fun dating someone. Woo her, be romantic, be honest, be trustworthy, and don't be afraid to make mistakes. Every couple fights, every couple has troubles, but if you can work together to make a relationship work, it's amazing. And if you make a mistake that's a deal breaker for someone, then live and learn. You're not perfect, no one is. You can't expect that you'll get it right straight out of the gate. Life is trial and error. Try something, and if that doesn't work, then try something else. I can say that by worrying that you won't be a good boyfriend, that could be an indication that you'll be a great one. Give it a chance, you'll be glad you did.

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