My father wants me to be a lesbian. I don't know why. Ever since I was a little girl, he would call me 'my little boy' he used to ask me 'are you a boy or a girl?' then I would tell him 'boy' then he would smile proudly. I don't really know why! I grew up to be a girly girl though. But he still tells me that 'if you're a lesbian, just tell us. it's okay.' -___- I'm straight.... well was, until I was 16. I think I may be pansexual. I find girls attractive as well. But he doesn't want me to have a boyfriend. He wants me to be with a girl. wtf?