so my mother in law tells me yesterday how sad she feels wheny daughter cries and throws tantrums and how she is always calm and happy with her grandparents. I asked her what she means by that and she started explaining how she didn t mean to offend me. but she did. and she knows that. so today she starts explaining how a person she knows said the same about his grandson - that he is happy with the grandparents and always crying.with the parents. i am convinced she does this on purpoae, yanking.my chain and deliberately annoying me to ger into a fight. that old snake.