After I broke up with my boyfriend, he tells me that he allways wanted that girl in another city, because she was his dreamgirl. He told me this, because we decided to be friends after the breake up - after that sentence I decided not to see him ever again, because it broke me into peaces. We did love each other for 3.5 years and now I felt like I wasted all my effort and time for that person. After 1 year they are together. I also have a boyfriend that I really love , but shattered in pieces, I'm always frightend he would leave me also for this reason.