i read this study (forgot the name of course) but it explained how if someone likes you, popping by their house unnanounced and planting their favorite flowers for their birthday comes across as romantic. if they don't, it's creepy/weird or desperate. So, i want to talk to this guy but i don't have any classes with him. Id have to just go sit with him, AND all his friends at breakfast to talk to him. But, if he's not immediately attracted to me its very likely that my advance will be seen as odd or pitiful. I don't want to talk to him if it could ruin everything, but he's cute and i want to talk to him! so i just stare at him during breakfast and wonder what I should do. This is why I'm single, guys.