I've been suspecting my boyfriend of cheating for a while now. today I finally got the courage and asked him up front if he was talking to other people I told him I'm asking him because I don't want to assume things and Ive been meaning to ask him..he didn't answer me but got mad and started asking exactly what he did for me to start thinking that of him. And started coming up with arguments that Im always trying to ruin something when everyone is getting along. the fact is even if I asked him on another day I'll get the same answer. we've been dating for almost 3 years now and I've broken up with him once already over trust issues basically him texting other girls. we got back together And we've been trying to establish trust but as for me it's been hard. I don't think I can ever regain that trust I had in him back especially since I wholeheartedly trusted him. never thought that he would do that to me. these days I have a gut feeling that something is wrong. Im always paranoid and I always over look his phone when he gets a text message. I don't want to be in a relationship like this! is anybody else going through the same thing?