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I'm 21 years old and recently just started working, I have a wonderful salary, nice apartment, simple life. I'm from a somewhat wealthy upbringing but I keep this a secret to people who I meet and only the closest of my "friends" know the background I come from, So I use this rule even towards the women I've just met or i'm dating until I get to know them better. I know this sounds cliche but the thing is I don't lie to them about myself, I just hold back from showing or talking about that side of my life. I'd use public transport instead of one of my cars for the hell of it, take my girl out on a date to a nandos, go to a baskin-robbins and just enjoy that simple ice-cream and her company, I try to be as modest as I can. It's not about being cheap, I can go all out trust me. it's about enjoying the little things in life with the person you sincerely think means the world to you. I dump every single girl I date after a while of being with them, usually by a month or so. The reason is I previously dated a number of girls, all at different times mind you, but the first one dumped me for another girl (I'm pretty open minded so I could understand, maybe she wasn't into guys, so why push?) so I let her go, but hell yeah it was a sword to the chest. The second one dumped me for my best friend because he used to pick her up in luxurious cars and take her "hanging -out" to these wild parties and concerts with celebrities and everything, take her to dinner in classy restaurants (so what if I prefer a juicy double beef burger with cheese to a plate of Foie gras). The last one encouraged me to get into a long-distance relationship with her then cheated on me and dumped me after I confronted her, then she found out my secret, seduced me into sleeping with her, this was while she was dating the guy she cheated on me with by the way, (I agreed because well, I'm a guy (we make stupid choices sometimes), plus she was hot) then she tried dropping a bomb on me 3 months later that I got her pregnant and that she was one month pregnant as she was telling me this,(Do the math...I sure know how to pick them, right?)...Since then I've lost trust in all women when it comes to being in a stable faithful relationship, so every girl I dated after this, I made sure to dump about 1-2 months into the relationship. I wouldn't cheat or lie or anything I just told them it wasn't working out and simply tried to end it on a friendly note. I've asked myself maybe I was the problem, but I've never been unfaithful, I always try to put everything I can on the table for a relationship. I'd o to the ends of the world just to see the woman i'm with happy, but I promised myself never to let my walls down...

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  • I wanna do it someday, my family is rich, im 18 btw ,collage and 2 more years i'll graduate, im thinking about getting a real relationship but all guys are either scared or prideful cos i have wealthy family, that i would want a luxurious stuff, but actually i dont even want anything from any person, maybe a mug, worth 1$ , ur my inspiration bro, not in the trust issue part but i wanna be like that, like the first part, about small things, cos thats really matter, and not being rich and money,

  • my advice as a girl =) take a break, dont try get your self in a relationship if you know it is going to end... girls which cheat and lie etc all have a similar way of thinking , they share traits etc...live youre life, get comfortable and work out everything.. if however you are in a relationship and you really think you can trust her... sit her down and open up to her... not everything ofc ,it will be a bombshell.. just tell her, i have had bad experiences with girls, i dont want to get hurt anymore and i dont know anymore... or something like that.. but dont go overboard and dramatic,,, short ,simple understandable... BUT as i said ... make sure its some one you can truly Trust.. who knows... you might find the right one some how ..

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