My boyfriend, who was by no means a small guy when we met, has put on a lot of weight and recently told me that he actually used to be much fatter but lost the weight. I didn't believe him and he showed me pics. I've begged him to let me help him get back on his diet but he's not interested now. I love him, but I'm not ready to play Leia to his Jabba. I don't want to be mean but I'm scared.