sometimes i really hate being a lesbian. All everyone ever wants to do is fuck and leave. Or they are a big head case and mess you over. But at the end of the day i see time and time again people wanting sex. i told my gay friend that i dont sleep with someone unless im dating and that i like to go out on dates. some places nice, places that are meaningful to me and the person. my friend laughed and thought it was ridiculous. one night stands can be fun, but isnt waiting and getting to know someone worth it too?