I met this new coworker. Funny woman, smart, hard working. Got together with her a few times, we've had a few dates and stuff. Some three days ago she said she likes me a lot, and she is ready. She wants me to be "her first" and I thought to myself "DAFUQ you mean by 'first'?" Turns out she's a 32 years old virgin. I'm really turned off by this now and I really don't know what to do. I like her, she is really a good person, but it seems she has put a lot of her emotional profile around this "first time". I seriously don't want to just ditch her, but I'm completely lost.