My ex fiance never really spoke about marriage or our future in definite terms. Even after we got engaged, I mostly remember him saying things like "IF we get married, where will we live?", and "MAYBE we can adopt an older child". But my current boyfriend is already saying "WHEN we get married..." and "My names for WHEN we have a baby are...". We've only been dating for four months so marriage and kids are still awhile off. But it's nice to know it will happen.