My crush blushes like crazy around me, we secretly cuddle and hold hands with interlocked fingers in class, he puts his hands on my upper thigh whenever he can and I can see how badly he wants to kiss me , and just a day later he's distant - not cold but I have to come up to him so I can talk to him. Not sure if he's insecure because neither of us has talked about whatever it is between us... He's rather shy when it comes to these things, especially with me. Can anyone tell what might be on his mind? I don't get it and I'm losing hope that I'll ever have the courage to ask him out myself if he acts this way. We're both 16 and he's pretty inexperienced if that makes any difference.