I came out of a relationship about 7 months ago, and about a month ago I met this guy and now I think I might be falling for him. Problem is, I don't know if he is gay as well. my friends tell me that it is obvious that he is gay, but he dated a girl in his previous relationship, and this confuses me. I don't want to ask him as I'm afraid I might scare him away, but then again ... I can't stop thinking about him.