The best way I can explain anal by telling you to imagine trying to take a poop, but the poop won't fall out and just keep slipping back in. It hurts for awhile sometimes but you're always determined to get that sucker out. Before you know it, it's an all out war with this thing. You're doing everything you can think of--shaking your butt, holding your cheeks, even groaning in hopes of at least breaking off a piece. Sometimes it's enough, but usually it's not. Now imagine that happening over and over again, till the poop melts and leaks out of your butt. I think that's why I don't enjoy anal.