so there are 8 people in our friend group, 5 girls and 3 guys. There are two sets of couples (1 guy and 1 girl). Now, we are all very relaxed with eachother. We all hold hands and hug and screw with people by saying some of us are dating eachother. But this has recently become a problem for me, because I have a crush on two of the people in our group (1 guy and 1 girl). Both are single, yet uninterested. The girl is my bff for life, so I'll manage. But the guy, we'll call him andy, is someone who I cant really get over. Andy, is very sweet, he calls everyone (including the guys) "beautiful" or "gorgeous", which is something I l o v e. He also is very touchy, he likes to hold hands and hug and all that fun stuff. And I'm very sensitive on my torso (breasts, stomach, etc.), which is one of the places he really likes to just like, touch, which drives me crazy. He also LOVES to do that hug-from-behind thing. Which I find kind of sweet and sexy. Long story short, I've kind of talked to him about my feelings (not going into too much detail) and he has nothing more than platonic affection for me. So now I'm having to push him away because I just can't do that. I'm falling harder and harder every time, and he thinks I'm depressed again. I just don't know how to do this.