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I am engaged with a man. One day, we were out with his friend Daniel and Daniel was rather flirtatious towards me in front of my fiance. After, I asked my fiance if he noticed that and why he didnt do / say anything about it. He told me that i should be the one to put Daniel in his place by my actions, and him talking to Daniel about it wouldnt change anything plus it will make him look inferior to Danial. What do you guys think? Agree or disagree? Months later, when i was out with my fiance, that same Daniel greeted me by kissing my arm in from of my fiance. A few weeks later, i told my fiance that Daniel arm kissing was sensual, it was way better than any of his and i felt something sexual when he did it. My fiance got pissed off at me: he yelled at me, felt like hitting me but didnt dare to, wanted to leave me but he couldnt etc... He went on and on about it for about a week. Its been like 2 months now, we went on with the relationship but i see that he is still not over it. But in the meantime, he is not saying anything to Daniel about his behavior towards me and their friendship continues as normal. He told me that he is blaming me for feeling something sexual etc... But i dont see why he is mad at me. I dont think i did anything wrong. I dont see how i could have prevented this from happening and i dont feel guilty for feeling something sexual. But i feel like by not putting Daniel in his place, he is condoning the behaviors since they all happen before his eyes. What do you guys think? Please help me understand whether i am right or wrong. Thank you...

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  • I think you will find most people are going to say it's your responsibility to put him in his place!

  • Lmao, honestly, YOU should be the one telling this Daniel guy to back the fuck off! You're so dumb, you shouldn't be in a relationship. Like....fuck! If your man can't tell his friend to back off, you do it, dumbass! You sound like a dumb housewife who can't do shit for herself or anyone tbh!

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