My husband is an asshole to me and our child. He's never at home he's always either at the gym or work or with his friends. He never touches me, kisses me, or talks to me this has been going on for 3 years. I started talking with my ex and I don't know things just feel hopeful with him I'm going to see him soon . Call me what you want but I've found messages and condoms and other womanly items that he has no explanation for and frankly I'm over it its time I found my own happiness.