About 2 years ago I fell into a horrible depression. I was unable to function for well over a year and I tried to commit suicide twice in that time. I didn't do house work I didn't do anything. My house became hoarded. I asked my husband to help me when I started to realize the mess to clean it up. I couldn't do it alone I needed help, he said it was fine I was just over reacting. But when the fire department came some how I was the only one that I got blamed for the mess?!?! Which I do know I am to blame as well but I feel he should be as well he didn't do anymore than I did and we work the same amout of hours and we had the same pissing job (I literally worked next to him) And shortly after that my husband left me "due to being too needy from my drepression" I went to the doctor turns out I am not clinically depressed. It was just situational depression and since he has been gone my house is clean and I have declutted the shit out of my house and my life. I should mention that before he left he helped me clean up our mess. I move in just over a month and I am letting him keep our house I don't want the risk of feeling like that ever again! The other part I don't get is he left me for my depression and he is engaged to the woman she was seeing for several months before he left. She has clinical depression and anxiety and she doesn't take her meds. She messages him all the time asking what we are doing when he comes to help me sort our stuff. I obly messaged him to see what time he'd be home. But I was to needy?