I'm a 31 year old woman who was dumped at christmas by her bf of two years. Now, however we're friends with benefits. He treats me poorly and argues with everything I say, I can never be right in his eyes. The reason I stay like this is because my male best friend confessed his feelings for me. I do not want to be with him at all and I'd sooner be misserable in a 'fake' relationship than single with my friend making me uncomfortable.