I'm constantly reading confessions of guys who wish they had a certain girl and how they would never do anything to hurt her.. Show me the most beautiful and amazing woman in the world and I'll show you a list of all the men who got bored of her and hurt her. That's just how life goes. One moment you think you are deeply in love with her, and the moment you make her yours, you lose interest and eventually hurt her... It pisses me off! Dude stop bullshitting around about how you would make her happy because you won't. Get your shit together and realize WHY you actually want her and stop with the romantic role play. It will be easier for the both of you, if you both have a clear mindset on what your relationship should be based on.