My 'sort-of' girlfriend is coming home from spending a year in another country. In this year, I cheated on her lots of times. I stopped loving her a few months ago. I don't have the balls to break up with her. I'm a selfish prick.
You should tell her because she does not need to live in a lie and you should not be hurtful towards her there is nothing wrong with you and you are not a prick it would be better on both of you.
I'm sure she's cheated on you too. Why wouldn't you if you're away from each other for an entire year? You're not selfish, you have needs. You two should have made an agreement to have sex with whoever you want before she left, but you didn't, and the only decent thing to do is tell her what you did, why you did it, and if she still loves you, give it a chance. See where it goes - if you find you don't love her anymore after a month or so, break up.
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