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I'm at a point in my life that I am completely freaking out. Yeah sure I'm stressed about work and school...but latley they've seemed to pale in comparison to my other worries. I'm worried about my marriage to the man I love, but who I'm becoming more and more sexually distant from every day. It has been causing so much hurt, and resentment. I feel like a huge part of his lack of wanting comes from his mentality latley.. which seems to be declining rapidly into depression. He refuses to do anything about it, and I feel so lost. And to top this all off with a cherry, I'm pretty sure I'm infertile...I've wanted a baby for years now, but after 4 years + of unprotected rolls in the hay...nothing...kaput...nada... It makes me feel like failure as a woman. So in summary, I feel like my marriage is slowly falling a part, but that's "ok" since he may be better off with someone who could actually provide him with children...

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  • As someone who is going to someday use adoption as her first and only method of having children I find this sad and vaguely insulting. Furthermore it could be either of your bodies, maybe he's shooting blanks, only approximately 25% of pregnancies are viable to term

  • Not being able to reproduce does not mean you fail as a woman. We are not animals, no one has the right to say that your ultimate purpose is to be pregnant. If you do want children, go see a doctor about it together. It might be you, it might be him, or it might have been chances.

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