I am in a relationship, but there's this other boy I find attractive (which shouldn't be a problem, right?). He's my boyfriend's best friend and therefore I hear a lot of stories about him. He now has a girlfriend himself. When my boyfriend told me this, and also every time he tells me another story about the two, I get unbelievably jealous. Even more jealous as when my boyfriend tells me he finds other women sexy. I am really afraid of this because I always thought I just found his friend attractive, not that I have a full blown crush on him. Does it mean I am falling in love with him? Can you have a crush but still love someone else?