I once had a crush on a guy for 2 full years, I tried really hard to get him. It finally happened, but he just used me amd it didn't went on for long. I then fell in love with his best friend - we're a couple. I now hate the guy to no end. Just hearing his name makes me mad. He will be the best man at our wedding and I will see him for the rest of my life. I think this whole thing is pretty fucked up.