This is going to be long so bear with me. So I met this guy like 2 Months ago at work, he gave me his number after I kinda cheekily asked him for it. He told me that he saw me a couple times prior and that he came by to see me again 5 times but I hadn't been there. We went on a date, like a real fucking date the first one in my entire life and it was so beautiful. we obviously started dating and things were pretty okay until his vacation started, he went back home, he's from Austria, and people kept asking me why he didn't come and visit me but tbh it's better for him not to. So a bit more to his background, he's still married but he's separated from his wife I haven't had the balls to ask how long it has been. He has a child with her a 3year old boy which he loves dearly. So lately he's been, not ignoring my texts but simply not answering. I can obviously see he's online and when he's been online last but he doesn't answer. I started getting worried that I messed up. So I texted him again and again and once I asked if everything is okay and that I'm worried and he just said he isn't doing well. at first I assumed because he had been sick and didn't go to the doctor like I said so I asked what was wrong and got no answer again. I started to think there was more to it. I got more and more worried and thought maybe I was the problem, it took me forever to text him again because I had some problems with a previous guy which led to me being constantly afraid to speak my mind or say anything at all. I told him how worried I am and that I over think a lot but I hope that whatever is bothering him passes. it was a long message lol. I received an answer after I left work the next day around 2pm he told me that it wasn't me but him and that he's not doing well and that everything is Shit and that it isn't me. Even after I asked again what was wrong he didn't say it. I do know how it is when you don't want to say what's wrong but I do want to help him over it after all I am his girlfriend. My mom said that it is just an excuse and she believes he's playing me and what not. she hasn't met him but she's been like this ever since she got to know that he's still officially married and that he had been in prison for hanging with the wrong people. like what do you guys think, is she right or is there really something wrong?