Honestly... Why is everyones first reaction to a problem in a relationship to breakup with said person. Like even people who give advice always say, leave him/her, breakup, blablabla. Maybe I don't want to and asked you for advice on how to actually fix this problem? Like if it's someone who's obviously abusive then the only thing to do is to leave that person. Another person to just leave is obviously some kind of criminal (murderer,rapist etc) or if you don't love your significant other then please leave them but everything else can be fixed. So why is everyone so fast on breaking up.