Take it off your chest...
Read Rules

I wanna ask my friend out but im afraid she'll say no or it will ruin our friendship. I can handle rejection from a stranger but from her I would be a tad bit butthurt about it. I wouldn't necessarily say she's expressed an interest in me but I also wouldn't say she's shown any signs of being uninterested. I've never put this much thought into a relationship mostly because I didn't have anything to lose before. The worst she can say is no but at the same time any other interaction would be awkward from there on out. I keep going back and forth in my mind. I'm also considering the long run. It can turn out good and live happily ever after or it can be the most disastrous thing since hurricane sandy. She's my dream woman but most importantly an awesome friend. Unless it goes well I'll probably end up regretting it either way. My mind is racing

Your Comment...

Latest comments

  • Just be honest. I've had this situation many times since I'm demisexual and can only really be attracted to good friends. Just say 'Look. You're my best friend. I don't want to lose that, ever. And if you don't want anything to change, I understand, but I honestly really like you a lot and I really want to develop our relationship into something more. If you don't want to, I'll still be happy just being your friend, but I just wanted to be honest with you and tell you how I feel. I don't want things between us to be weird, and I promise I won't make it weird. I just wanted to take a chance and tell you in case you actually say yes.'

  • Wait for 1 April and tell her you like her. If she doesn't like you back you can say it's April fools. Haha seriously though, you will never know unless you ask, and make it clear that you can stay friends if she doesn't want a relationship.

Show all comments