I had a two years affair with a really nice married guy. He was 15 years older than me. I'm sure that he had never so much fun and sex in his life. Then I met another married guy. He had a three months affair and he left his wife to marry me. We got married one year ago. Today, the old affair said that he misses me everyday. He askes himself what he could do at that time to stay with me. And I'm tempted to see him again. I don't know what to do.