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I'm soo fucking annoyed right now. I have the nicest friend, always there for me, understanding and always standing up for me. However she is the only person I'm so goddamn insecure around about the way I look. She always compliments my body and face but she also says she doesn't want to go to a club with me unless I let her do my makeup because I appearently suck at it. This does hurt my feelings because I have a lot of honest friends but none of them ever tell me that. She also tells me from time to time I wear strange clothes which causes me so much anxiety when I get dressed and put makeup on when we go shopping and sometimes resulting in me putting on no makeup at all and wearing something plaim just because I don't want her to say anything about it. IDK if I should tell her or not or what I should do.

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  • Tell her it bothers you. You should be able to look however you want. My friend became goth, and I never told her she looked weird or that I disapproved. I supported her even though it was a different style choice than mine.

  • Tell her or suck it up or cut her out. Telling her is the best option, but if I was you, I know I couldn't do it. So either don't hang out with her anymore. Or suck it up. There will always be people who make you feel bad. Colleagues who do the same and can't be cut out of your life easily. You'll overhear people, and it will hurt especially when it's guys you like, saying how ugly you are. Pre-teen boys in the street will insult your appearance when you pass by them. Learning to deal with that is the best option you have, honestly, but it's not possible for everyone. It can help to realize that everyone's taste is different and that what she finds cute is goddamn ugly to you, and that it doesn't matter if she finds you cute, because the opinions you should care about come from people you want to sleep with. It's no problem if a friend has a different taste of beauty.

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