My boyfriend has told me multiple times that if I got pregnant his dad would be incredibly mad at him and probably me as well, even though we're being safe and it wouldn't be our fault. And his dad is scary and I'm really not sure what he would do. So I suggested that if I did get pregnant I would deal with it on my own so that my boyfriends dad wouldn't find out but my boyfriend said he wouldn't be okay with that. But then I thought that maybe it would be a better idea to not even tell my boyfriend and just deal with it, then tell him afterwards. Do you think that would be a bad thing to do or not?