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Has anybody else ever been exhausted by an ex? Our relationship ended 3 years ago and he’s still stuck on me. He was talking to me and some other girl at the same time for about a year before we were official. I asked him multiple times if he had any feelings for the other girl or if he liked her and he was adamant they were just friends. I’m not a jealous person and never had a problem with him talking to her especially since we were friendly to each other. We never hung out together but we were Facebook friends and followed each other on IG. All was good at the beginning between me and my now ex until he started behaving shadily. He would tell me he’s doing one thing but his friends or social media show different. He was acting very vague with short 1-3 word replies, on the phone he didn’t say much, in person he was really secretive and seemed like he was in his own world. The final straw was when we made plans to hang out and he canceled to “study”. Turns out he was hanging out with the other girl and it wasn’t the first time, he did it our whole relationship. He told me the entire time they don’t hang out anymore, they barely talk, they only text here and there to check up on each other. Basically when he wasn’t with me he was with her. Neither one of them would confirm if they ever hooked up or not but neither denied it so I’m pretty confident they did. He spilled all the beans on a lot of things so I broke up with him immediately and ever since then he will not move on. He keeps trying to talk to me saying I’m the love of his life, he wants to marry me, we’re meant to have children together and all this shit. Our relationship lasted less than a year so its funny how he was juggling the 2 of us the entire time and all of a sudden we’re supposed to be married and have kids? WHAT! We weren’t anywhere near that stage when the relationship was good. But he just womt give up. He messages me all the time and shows up at my work “to get lunch” at least twice a week. It’s literally exhausting having this man bothering me all the time. I’ve told him I’m not interested but he wont let it go. Every time I block him he finds a way .

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  • You can actually have him arrested for harassment. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. When I had a shitty ex who treated me that way, I just treated him like shit until he hated me so much he never wanted to see me again.

  • Tell him you're done and 1 more message, you'll contact the police and get a restraining order. If they won't give you one, tell his friends, boss, family etc he's give you unwanted attention and to help him stop make him realize how dumb he looks.

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I had a dream that I was at some sort of sleepover with my ex and her family, and her new boyfriend. He slept right next to her as she took my hand. Then held my dick, and started stroking. I was worried she would wake any one of them, but she didn't seem to be. She put it in her mouth and started sucking, and I came quickly. That's when I woke up with a pair of boxers soaking in cum... Hottest dream I've ever had. I really want it to come true.

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My girlfriend has just told me she's pregnant. I honestly don't know what to think. I have the nagging doubt in My head that there's a chance it's not mines. iv been with her just over a year, and have never had any real findings that she's ever cheated on me but something just tells me she has. stupid things like I know when a guy has messaged her because I get a glimpse of the name or whatever and when I ask who it is she plays it off as one of her girlfriends. iv also seen sexts to another guy from a point where we were early on in our relationship but still getting pretty serious. I asked her if she was seeing or in contact with more than one person at the start and she said absolutely not. I know otherwise though. I don't know what to think, I love her, but don't know if I trust her fully

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  • DNA test before signing any documents like birth certificate or else you pay support no matter what in a lot of places.

  • Do a DNA test.

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So I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months or so now and it's going really great! He is honestly a great person and I definitely feel like I love him...but, my mind keeps bringing me back to other sexual experiences I had or could've had. Like I keep thinking about this girl that I was talking to when I first got together with my bf. She and I both knew nothing serious would ever come out of it but I think we were both looking to try something new, we just never got the chance. Or this guy that was consistently my drunken hookup for several months. He's not exactly relationship material, but damn the sex was good! I never act on these thoughts or anything cause I really don't want to ruin what I have with the bf, but sometimes that person/sex with them is in my head all day long. It's like my head and my heart are going in one direction but the rest of my body is going the other way.

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  • Maybe... he's not satisfying you. You can love someone and not be happy with them sexually. Tell him what you want him to do. Tell him what things you like, tell him what you want to try. And ask him to do the same.

  • Maybe try something new with your boyfriend to fulfill these fantasies?

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my only friend got rejected again. and because i am an overthinking dumbass, i noticed some little details that i think are weird. so first, all the girls he hung out with or showed strong interest in him got into a relationship shortly after they called him off. All this time they were seeing each other, posted pictures of themselves on social media, they had something going on with someone else in the background. You see, people can do whatever the fuck floats their goat, but to me thats kinda confusing and a bit disappointing. Seems to me like all people just want someone, not THE one. second: I dont like the way he deals with it. he acts like they owe him something. The friendzone isnt real. And even if, its not real friendship if you had expectations about hookin up. He says it doesnt bother him, but i think it kinda does.

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  • Dude... lots of people do that ('talking to' several people and then narrowing it down). That's called dating. You test the waters to see who you like the most and then you pick one. Just because they didn't choose your friend doesn't mean they want just anyone- they clearly don't or they'd take him. Also, if he's the kind of person who thinks women owe him something or he whines about being 'friendzoned' all the time, I wouldn't even be friends with that guy, much less date him. He sounds like an ass.

  • I have a few things to say: 1. I don't see any problem with wanting to be with someone instead of wanting to be with THE one. A lot of relationships are breaking apart despite being between two people who are wonderful for each other only because they lack experience, haven't ever learned how relationships work (that you have to fight for it sometimes, that it's not like in love movies, that you don't own each other etc.). Also, having a best friend who's with you all the time and who helps you, who is there for you, is just nice, even if you know it's not for ever. And don't forget about sex. 2. First you say they were leading your friend on, then you said those were just friendships anyways, I'm just a little confused what is actually going on; are you saying the girls are bitches for talking to multiple guys at once or not? (Seriously, I just want to understand, I'm not trying to discredit you). 3. I love the phrase whatever floats your goat. Was probably a spelling mistake but it's awesome, thanks for the laugh

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I don't know how some committed women still want me after yrs of awkward glances and no reaction on my part.

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I almost sent a message through Facebook to a married woman. She gazes me with such intensity when we walk by on the street. I want to have sex with her, she's a stunning redhead cougar. And she wants it too. If only I wasn't such a coward...

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  • Are you so pathetic you can't get your own woman? You have to share with other men?

  • Can turn sour, you don't want that trouble.

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I don't have sex with married women. Not because I think it's wrong, I just don't know how to approach them. And I live in a small place where everyone knows everyone.

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  • Why is this something you think about though? Because you actually want it so badly? That's not cool.

  • Wow. Just wow. They're not approachable, dumbass

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Felt not being ur best friend's best friend anymore!

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I'm so jealous and sad at the moment. My boyfriend started hanging out with this girl, and I can't stand it. I'm not afraid that he'll cheat on me, not at all; I don't think he would, and even if, for me cheating isn't the worst thing a partner can do. He has done worse things that we also got over with. No, I'm afraid that he'll fall for her. I am currently not the best girlfriend, I have mental issues and even though I'm working on them, it often makes me very difficult to handle. I also have always been afraid that I'm not the love of his life and that he'll just be with me until he meets someone better. I try my best not to get on his nerves with it (I'm sure it would only make it worse), but it eats me up internally.

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  • Please talk to him... Tell him about your fearsa

  • CHEATING ON U is something unacceptable gurl !! If he can find someone else u do as well ! If he start to hangout with girls u start hanging out with boys that's easy babeeeeee

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