I have to really hold myself back to not look up what the girl my ex bf cheated on me with looks like. (I know her full name because she was a coworker of his) Cause I can only lose in that situation. If I find her to be less attractive/a less good catch than me it'll just make me feel less attractive and insulted. If I think she's more attractive I'll think "Oh, that's why." and my (currently pretty high) self esteem will basically get flushed down the toilet. But I'm still extremely curious. Not because I still want him or anything but I never really got any answers as to why he'd pick her over me. What would you do?

A few days ago I was talking to a man who said that cheating is okay, if a guy does it. He wouldn't forgive his wife, if she cheated. But if he did then it would be okay because guys do that?! I mean wtf??! What a douche!! What's the difference?? Wether man or woman, who cheats is an asshole and the gender does not excuse the "act"

My girlfriend moved out and is getting a room... but she'll be sharing her room with ANOTHER GUY. Did I mention for free? Because he's supposedly her best friend. This is so uncomfortable. I mean, who knows what that guy will do to her?

My girlfriend is getting a room and pretty much sharing it with her best guy friend... for free... is this bad for the relationship? Literally she's sleeping in the same room as a guy she's known for years. Yeah, the guy is going through shit and had to move out. But seriously, that makes be feel super uncomfortable...

I've slept with 20 guys in the past few years. My first being my boyfriend of a year and my second being the guy I cheated with 6 months later and told him about a year later, 2. This was only the beginning of my adventures. 3 was in a threesome with two guys on a cold snowy day high on cough syrup. 4 was a good and cute one who would go on to be my boyfriend of a year. When I moved away for college, I had accumulated three more lovers by the time I broke up with him. One of them was a freak, 7, I told him I was sleeping around with three guys and it turned him on. We fucked for what seemed like the plight of mankind. Anyways, I decided as an 18-19 year old chick, being single was probably the best thing at time. The other lover, 6, didn't think so. We fooled around for many months, him frequently staying and fucked at my house. 6 was also my first doing anal. 6 was a smaller guy so it hurt a lot less than expected, but he was a freak who loved my ass. Meanwhile, I racked up two more, a tinder date and a hot military guy. I tried to explain to him I wanted a break because with us it was only ever about sex, but he still wanted to see me when I went away on vacation for 6 weeks. 3 more, 2 blood-related 🤔 eventually after my sexual adventure I realized I needed to tone things down, it helped that 6 had moved out of my life. Suddenly, 13 comes in on a cold lonely night with an air mattress. He smokes cigarette in my room when I really didn't like him to. He kissed me and told me I liked it when I didn't. He fucked me and told me to say I liked it when he fucked me from behind with his white cock, but I didn't. A small break in which I treated myself was necessary. That is when I met my love, 14. A friend of a friend, an instant connection. He was such a sweet and good guy I was only thinking how it would look as I rode his face. Anyways, by now I've racked up 6. I've given myself permission to one more.

i cheated on him months ago. it was a one time mistake with his mate. he set me up.. his mate was recording me the whole time and showed my partner. i gave him head. anyway.. my partner had been cheating with several women before I ever did that. i just didnt happen to have an actual recording of the acts. i had alot of evidence! (including catching claymidia and herpes from him after i had stayed at my mothers for a week) and of course he denied it! because that's what men will always do! DENY DENY DENY! anyway so since he has caught me out red handed, we have stayed together and its been 4 months of absolute hell! i dont know why he didnt just kick me out !! he has milked my fuck up and used it to justify his actions right now! he even brought a chick to our home and locked his bedroom door the whole night while they had sex.. i was crying and he called me "miserable" and told me it was my fault he is cheating I started it and i shouldn't have done it. i have been only with him since he totally caught me out. i told him the other night (after i read his emails confirmation booking to a hotel for the 3 nights he wasn't home) that he cant keep punishing me. i told him he needs to find another excuse, cause blamimg me has passed its expiry date. i wont continue to be walked all over and we should judt end it if its just going to be like this cause i am not risking more stds from the sluts he has been sleeping with. what do I do/ say guys??

Some girl just came bragging to me about how she's cheating on her faithful loving boyfriend with multiple dudes. She obviously thinks she's all that. The cheating is none of my business but why the fuck would she be so damn PROUD. And out of all people come and tell the girl (me) that got cheated on and fucked over by her first boyfriend how proud you are of your having sex with other guys. She knows that shit happened to me. I feel like punching that pig in the face.

So this guy I used to talk to and kinda be with has a gf and we barley talked cuz he had work and cuz his girl but recently he asked me to come over I asked if he was sure since he got a gf and he said yea not like we Ganna do anything so I did and well ... We did things we weren't suppose to now we talk regularly and I've liked him too much to even care that he has a gf literally forget he even has one unless I see a pic of them

I met a guy at a rave this past weekend and I let him kiss me. He's the first guy I've ever let kiss me at any festival or concert. His vibes were just so positive and it felt so right. I have a boyfriend though.. I don't know what to do. I keep thinking about this guy and every time I kiss my boyfriend I pretend it's him. I feel like I'm in love with this guy and I only knew him for a couple hours but he lives in a state next to me which is sad. I need advice.

This past weekend I met a guy at a rave and he's the first guy I've ever let kiss me at any type of festival or concert because people are gross yah know. However, his vibes were just so positive and I was really feeling him so I just let him kiss me when he leaned in. At the festival his phone got stolen and I have to wait for him to get a new one to contact him. Only problem is I have a boyfriend but I can't stop thinking about the guy at the festival. I literally felt an instant connection with him. He lives in the state next to mine which is really sad. I just don't know what to do because when I kiss my boyfriend now all I can so is imagine it's nick (festival guy). I need advice.