Been married for 10 years, things have been bad for the last 2 years and seem to be getting worse. I have a crush on a hot younger co-worker that always flirts with me and told me she'd never thought she'd want to date a married man till she met me. I know I should be focusing on fixing my marriage but shes so damn hot I can't get her out of my mind.
My boyfriend's and my sexlife is currently nonexistent and that is really hard for me. We've found ways to work on it, but progress is slow. Lately I've got an especially horny phase - has something to do with the new guy at work who obviously flirts with me - and my boyfriend is now away for a week. I am not a cheater, but these thoughts don't stop coming to my head. That it would be so easy, that he'd never find out, that it would solve all our problems because I could satisfy my sex drive and stop being angry at him all the time. I KNOW that it's no solution, but the voice in my head doesn't. I am afraid to go to work because I fear doing something horrible in a small moment of weakness.
I want to fuck my female co-worker, but she is engaged :(
I was very drunk and very down last weekend. I come home at around 4AM, out of cigarettes and beer, and decide I should try cutting myself - something I've never done before but in that moment it felt right. I couldn't draw blood, I guess there was something in me stopping me from doing it. But I left thin cuts and it feels calming, I don't know why but just looking at them makes me feel better. I'm scared I'm going to end up cutting myself proper.
i saw that you got married...congrats...and i hope that you won't cheat on him how you've done with me...now that you also have a child..but unluckly, the history has a really bad way of repeating itself..best of lock to you two
I cheated in my dream last night and it makes me miserable. It was this sort of dream that lets you believe things are really happening until you wake up, so I don't think you can file it under "it was just a dream, it doesn't matter". There was a guy, an old classmate I always found attractive, and we were on a classtrip, so my boyfriend wasn't anywhere and would have never found out. I first said no, but it was easy for him to convince me otherwise. I felt extremely guilty; but still did it. And enjoyed it. When I woke up, I was still a little confused and thought it had really happened and that the guy was still lying next to me. I knew I had fucked up, and already planned how I'd hide it from my boyfriend. When I realized what had really happened, I didn't feel better, because I now know that I'm a cheater...
Question of the day: What is your worst break up story?
I sometimes wish my boyfriend would cheat on me. I have self esteem issues, so maybe it's kind of a "I'm not worth anything so I should be punished" thing. But I think it could be because then something would happen in our relationship. Currently, it's all quite boring. We're not a fresh couple anymore, the spark is long gone and even though it's still fine between us, I wish there were some fresh emotions. Like passionate anger, then him fighting for my love and finally us getting back together and figuring out how to make it work, like at the beginning of the relationship. It's weird.
She cheated on me. I said we'd divorce, but she asked me to stay. Against my better judgement, I stayed. We didn't get a divorce. But since I don't trust her to not be cheating on me still, I've been cheating on her nonstop, everytime I get the chance. It's been happening for the past 3 yeard or so. I have tried the divorce again, but she begs me not to. This time I will divorce her, mark my words.
I can't believe my boyfriend just said that he will seek other woman for sex when I don't have sex with him while we are married. That is straight up cheating. Should I just end my relationship with him already? He has always forced me to have sex and not once he has seen me like a mere friend. I have to ask for permission from him for every decision I take. I just don't know what to do. He has been toxic but I love him. I just have no idea what to do.