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I slept with several men I randomly met as a way to cope with hurt my husband caused me in our marriage. it was a lot. I feel guilty and bad about it and I have stopped. one of the men I had a months long relationship with and apart of me wishes I we had met and married instead when we were younger, instead. also, he is white and Im black and I didn't t see race when I was with him. just a friend and companion. I miss him but I am not going back to that old life. I can't. I have too much to lose. we both do.

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My boyfriend is always really jealous and gets mad when I text with other guys (or if he just thinks I'm doing it). Like, REALLY mad. On the other hand, he texts a lot of other girls and sometimes even hangs out with them. That itself isn't a problem for me. But I once read somewhere that people who cheat often are really jealous (because they think their partner is doing what THEY are doing), and flip out over things that they do themselves - like the texting. I don't know guys, I normally trust my partner but lately he's getting so strangely jealous and specific (when we weren't with each other for a night, he accused me of cheating because I had worn my sexy shirt. He also sometimes wears his good clothes when I'm not with him.)

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  • Hmm, it is possible he is cheating then or he's just really really insecure. This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship with the way he's been acting, y'all need to sit down and have a talk.

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My boyfriend is always really jealous and gets mad when I text with other guys (or if he just thinks I'm doing it). Like, REALLY mad. On the other hand, he texts a lot of other girls and sometimes even hangs out with them. That itself isn't a problem for me. But I once read somewhere that people who cheat often are really jealous (because they think their partner is doing what THEY are doing), and flip out over things that they do themselves - like the texting. I don't know guys, I normally trust my partner but lately he's getting so strangely jealous and specific (when we weren't with each other for a night, he accused me of cheating because I had worn my sexy shirt. He also sometimes wears his good clothes when I'm not with him.)

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  • The one time I cheated I never even cared about what that girl was doing or who she was talking to. I cheated because I was afraid to admit that there's a chance I might get hurt and having multiple girls gave me that security

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I catfished my girlfriend to test her loyalty. Epic fail going to come clean at the last minute. she's already asking to meet up for sex. gonna dump her unfaithful soul.

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  • That whole situation sucks. I suggest working on yourself before getting into another relationship though - people who are in and want a healthy relationship don't think about or actually catfish their partner.

  • it means she fell in love of you again

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Dear L I know about you and T 💔

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  • I know C told me. And U and N also know about T.

  • sweetie you are the sidehoe not T.

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my family's life would be better without me.

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To those who have cheated in the past a curious heart wants to know what were some of the reasons.

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  • Revenge for her cheating.

  • I was scared for a relationship and it was the easiest way to get out of it. I know its bad, but people do stupid thinks when they are scared. Still regret it.

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I've been the "other girl" twice. You know, the girl they cheated with. The first time was with the first guy I have ever truly been in love with. He always initiated it - cuddled with me, invited me over at night, tried kissing me. It never actually happened - so maybe he didn't even cheat, but it still felt like it. And I was so helpless because I loved him. The second time was with a long term friend, and I totally forgot that he had a girlfriend. I seriously just forgot about it. I guess he didn't, but he acted like he was single. The next day he said that we'd better not tell his girlfriend and then I felt like shit. To this day, I don't know if I should feel guilty about it; the first time, nothing really happened, and the second time I really didn't know about the other girl...

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  • You didn't knowingly do anything to hurt anyone, I'd say you shouldn't feel guilty.

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I am friends with benefits with a guy. It started when we made out at a party once and noticed that we liked doing that, but wouldn't like being a couple. We agreed that we'd just meet up to fuck whenever we wanted, but could also meet other people since we weren't a couple. He has had "things" going on with about 3 girls so far - and I have recently met another guy I'm currently dating, but also nothing serious (yet). Now, my fuck-buddy is suddenly extremely jealous. He wouldn't really tell me why (I asked him if he wants a relationship, but he said no) and just said he doesn't want to "share me". I felt like a piece of meat when he told me this. I really don't understand why he's so angry about it!?

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  • mostly ego. my fuck-buddy was the same. we stopped fking because he wanted to be in a relationship with a friend of us, I didn't care that much, but when they broke up, he couldn't bare the fact that I had met other guy in the meantime and that I was seeing one of them instead of him. it's irrational but a lot a people feel this way, even if they don't want anything else. like a kid who don't want to share his toy, even if he's not playing with it. he wants you to be crazy about him, to want only him, because it would make him feel so good about himself. I say you should stop being fuck buddy with him, he wants to possess you and that is unhealthy. focus on your relationship with the not-serious-yet one, see where it goes and see what happens with your fbuddy when he sees you're not his at all now.

  • Some people get very possessive regardless of whether they want a relationship, even in agreements like yours. And that's really all there's to it. While he can't helo feeling that way, he should know better than to act on it. It would be for the best to stop sleeping with him, because this is going to be very problematic when you decide to get serious with another guy if you continue

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how can i comfort a sensitive freind who just broke with her boyfriend

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  • Eat her pussy ! Works every time

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