I'm sorry to hear that. May she rest in peace. *sending virtual hugs*

I'm sorry for your loss. Hang in there.

It's time to stop doing these bad things. There is no future among the prostitutes. It looks like the path away from it has already begun because you desire repentance.

Well first of all, stop cheating on your gf. What the hell is that going to solve?

I promise life is worth it if you just hold on. I was like you once. I still have bad days, but it does get better. You can get better.

It's not going to be worth it. Please don't do it. There's a reason why you failed all those other times. Just don't do it.

Hey, you're doing great not harming yourself anymore! Don't question that. If the scars bother you that bad, you can look into using manuka honey to help them go away, or you can cover them up with a tattoo. Instead of those scars reminding you of the bad times you went through, try to view them as a reminder of how strong you are for surviving and getting through it, a reminder of how far you've come since then. Even if you haven't come very far, any progress is worth being proud of. This is a process, and it takes time. You can do it.

Same, although mine are super obvious. Along with stretchmarks I got way back when I hit puberty. People can be so shitty about what other people's bodies look like.

I think the problem with porn is not the sex itself, but the cold, loveless atmosphere devoid of any respect among the performers. At least in the majority of porn. So I think you are justified in disliking your boyfriend's porn habit.

check out yourbrainonporn.com

people judgements only really affect us if they're true or partially true. the real person whos judgement bothers you is yourself. if you are living in a way that you're trying to become what you think is your ultimate best self (like your last evolution if u were a pokemon) then judgements wouldnt be able to hurt you too badly

Fake it till you make it actually works here. Seriously, front. Act like you are damned good and you know it. And when someone questions you, stand firm. Outsiders know nothing of you. They can't tell. No matter what, you gotta strut.

You're not obligated to let her use your bathroom. It's the landlords responsibility to repare whatever is broken in her apartment, and it's her responsibility to care for her things to get repared. You could do it to be kind, but if that would make you feel bad, there's no point in doing it.

Not having energy to clean doesn't make you incompetent. I know how you feel. Tidying up takes a lot of energy, and it's okay if you just don't have it sometimes. No one is perfect. But also don't feel bad for not letting her use your bathroom, that's not your responsibility. It would be a kind gesture, but it is by no means necessary.

Assignments take a lot of time. Sorry about your mom. Please find some time to care for your hamsters, I understand you're busy, but they depend on you. It doesn't take long to clean a cage. Good luck, friend

America varies wildly by region. My wife came here from LA and thought Americans must be evil. She came to the Midwest and found we are more like Mayberry on Andy Griffith. Sorry about the dillhole. He's probably one of those guys we resent here too. I love Euro-Metal. My favorite hardcore band was the Refused.

Ugh, I'm sorry he's your only experience with Americans. While it's true we, as a nation, are dumb and arrogant, I promise we're not all like that :/ But he's not a friend, my dude. Cut him out of your life.