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I just want to sleep next to someone on this twilight cold weather.. i never realized how much that kind of feeling meant to me a lot. I spent my whole life alone and occupied with my work and research. Most of my life I live to study reality yet I cant live in reality. Im stuck in the lab then i go home alone. Heck i dont have close friends to talk to. Just colleagues about work. Sometimes they invite me for a drinking night but its still makes me feel empty though. Its so weird im already 24 years old. i never expect much but a real friend i never have. And now someone to be with which is harder to come by. I never dated men since 8 years ago when i was completely different person

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  • If you can, I suggest using apps to find friends :) There are a lot of free ones.

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Why do guys like to go to strip clubs? My boyfriend as been talking about going to one and I'm feeling self conscious. I've already expressed how I would feel about it.

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  • What another nakid women, man, I got one every night at home, show me one girl who can 👻 boohoos👾 with me.

  • I also want to go to one some day. Just to see what it's like. It's such an overglorified concept that you keep seeing in what feels like literally every movie or TV show, so I am really hyped about doing that myself once. I am a straight woman. What I want to say with this is, there is a possibility that he has innocent reasons for going, and you shouldn't worry until you asked him why he wants to go.

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Overthinking kills the happiness of the person. I feel empty inside. Its sucks that i shouldnt be hurting but i want to feel the pain rather than being empty. Like my heart is really familiar of pain. I just want to cry right now i want to be sad because being empty is worse. Im waiting for tomorrow, I think there will be a bad news or what, so i can feel the pain. Im hoping that I can win the battle that im into. Because no one will save me from this only myself. Is it funny that im typing this after watching a happy ending kdrama? I should be happy right? You cant really guess when will this emptiness will occur in your life. And is it weird that my happiness now is being sad or being in pain? I want to message some of my friends to let out my feelings but so scared and im shy too. I think im such a nuisance to them. They are living a happy life and who I am to share my not so important feelings right? Im not worth of attention. My problem is mine and I shouldnt be sharing it to others.

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  • Get some help. Don't try to feel sad, that's just stupid. You could be putting that energy into finding things to be happy about.

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I’m not an alcoholic. I talk to my man about his drinking all the time. But when I feel very alone which is often I drink and smoke until I fall asleep. otherwise I get panic attacks.

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  • If I tell you that I'm not a heroin addict, but take heroin when I feel a certain way every other day because I can't without it, would you advise me to get help? Probably. You might not be an every-day-drinker alcoholic, but what you're doing is not healthy and you deserve to be able to cope without it.

  • And that's how it starts....

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Sometimes i think about it, maybe i feel down all the time because Im obssessed with thinking sad stuff. Self pity, anger, vengeance etc. Maybe im addicted to it and why i never get out of this depressing cycle. Or at least i hope it is like that. And i feel like Im addicted to it because it makes me feel something because not being sad makes me feel empty. Being happy is exhausting so i turn to sadness. Sadness makes me sleepy but waking up from it, i get to see its that one making me more sleepy after all but then i still think it makes me better but i feel like sadness just kills me. So maybe its an addiction. But like an addiction, how do you break an addiction????

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  • I think that's literally just depression, you don't just get addicted to being sad when you have a normally functioning brain. Talk to a doctor.

  • I recommend getting help if you can.

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I don't know what brought it on, but my depression has suddenly come back full force after lying dormant for so long... I feel awful. I feel so alone and unwanted. All these terrible whispers keep intruding into my mind, telling me I'm worthless and everyone would be better off with me dead. I hate feeling this way. I know it's not true. ...Right?

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  • It's not true, people will miss you.

  • We're all going to die sonner or later so why rush it?

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I've reached in my sessions with my psychologist an impass. There's problems I have that can't be solved word's but with actions. I'm just too scared of life that I can't push through the difficulties I encounter and don't even try. I've become a extremely lazy man because of this.

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I've had days lately where I wish I could just call out from work for the day. It's just, I hate my job some days. I hate the pressure. I hate being yelled at by mean customers. The anxiety and depression is getting to me. I'm having one of those days now. But I can't afford to lose hours on my check. I just want to cry and not get ready for work. My supervisor doesn't know I have issues with anxiety and depression so I'd have to tell her if I call out.

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  • Are you living in a country where you can go to a doctor who writes you a sick note so you don't have to go to work? Because if so, you can get written sick for that.

  • I also suffer from anxiety and depression, and if your boss is someone you're even relatively friendly with, I would tell her if I were you. Don't use it as an excuse to call in, but let her know maybe at a time when you're not having a bad day. It's not a secret to be ashamed of. On the other hand, forcing yourself to work past your issues to go to work and get things done may actually be good for you because it'll help you learn to cope. But I'm no doctor. I suggest getting help if you can. I wish you the best.

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It was so difficult for me to find out that my biological father who raped my mom looks like me. Everytime i view the mirror I just hated myself... I cant bear to forgive him when I met him. Now I cant bear to see myself in the mirror.

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  • Don't hate yourself. What happened is not your fault. You didn't do it. The fact that his genes influenced your appearance is not something you should feel guilty about. You are not your father. You are your own person, you are who you choose to be. And if it's any condolence to you at all, I've always thought I look just like my dad, spitting image, but no one I talk to thinks I actually look like him much at all. So you might not look as much like him as you think you do.

  • All you have to know is you are Not him. You are you.

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My boyfriend and I had a pretty bad fight lately. In his rage, he said "well maybe you should just kill yourself then". He obviously said it without thinking about what he was saying, and later he even made fun of himself for saying it because he thought it was so stupid. What he doesn't know, however, is that I can't laugh about it. I used to be suicidal (what he doesn't know) and still have depression (which he also doesn't know) and sometimes get "bad thoughts" again. This happened some days ago, but it still makes me feel cold. Unintentional or not, hearing something like this from a loved one hurts massively.

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  • Sweetheart... this is going to be hard to hear and you may not want to think it's true. But you should break up with him. No one 'just says' those things because they're mad. I have been so infuriated with my parents or siblings or partners that I've said things I wish I hadn't... but none of them were lies. I told them things I really thought or believed but kept hidden. I've never been able to bring myself to even call them names. Even being pissed at them, I love them too much to say things like 'I hate you,' 'I wish you were dead,' 'I wish we had never met,' etc. Don't stay with someone who doesn't even love you enough to not be able to tell you you should die. On the other hand, you should make him aware of your past honestly, especially if you still struggle with it. Part of being someone's partner is being honest with them. But keep that in mind for the future, don't stay with this guy. He's a dick, and nobody is ever 'just kidding'.

  • not sure how you could say that to someone you care about. angry or not. and you can't hide things like that if you really want your relationship to work. it's a form of lying. you aren't communicating and you aren't being honest with him... now with that being said, I dont think he's the right onw for you if he would say that.

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