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I don't feel anything when having sex, no clitoral, no vaginal or anal feeling, it's because I was born with sexual dysfunction. I get really really depressed after trying masturbation. So I don't do it anymore.. I'm much more happier not ever trying it. But sometimes, I get to hear people talking about how good sex was and I'm completely clueless how it feels and I feel very excluded.. Unhuman like... And I go back to the feeling of depression...

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  • Sex doesn't make you human. Let me tell you something- you're not missing out on much. I mean, sure, it feels good, I guess, but it feels good like a hot bath does, or like a back massage. It's not wild pleasure like porn makes it out to be. It's just enjoyable. The part that make sex fun is being intimate with your partner and sharing that connection and closeness. And you don't have to actually have sex to experience that bond, either. There are tons of asexuals out there still enjoying life and love.

  • Are you on any medication? I have heard people on SSRIs and/or hormonal birth control feel similar.

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can someone please cheer me up? im so tired being sad all over again ;(

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I don't miss being sober. I know this isn't healthy but I'm tired of being so depressed and sober. To my standards I'm a hypocritical coward. I just hate existing and hate when the depression bleeds through the thick layer of drunkenness or high.

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  • Please seek help :( There are ways to fight this without drugs and alcohol. We don't have to fight the war against depression on our own.

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Just found out I have lung cancer. I've never been a smoker, I don't do drugs. I'm really angry and sad. And I don't know how to tell my wife, my parents, my brothers.

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  • I'm sorry :( Good luck, friend.

  • Sometimes it's genetic and can't be avoided. If you are Jewish and of the Cohen/Moses bloodline the genetic marker is actually a lung cancer gene.

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I have had a chronic illness for about a year now and it made my life really bad. I was very close to losing my will to live. A few weeks ago, I tried a new therapy and it worked instantly. I was so unbelievably happy. Today, the symptoms came back full force. I don't know if it was because I stopped the therapy (you're supposed to take the pills for a month and then stop) or because it didn't actually work. My will to live already packed its suitcases. I either will have to live with this shit for the rest of my life, or will have to take pills for the rest of my life (apart from the inconvenience of that alone I also have to follow a diet while taking them), which both isn't good. I don't know how to handle it. I don't know if I want to handle it. It's so painful.

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  • Go to the doctor, tell them that you stopped the medicine. Maybe try again, but go the full month. Stopping a treatment midway through therapy is one of the biggest mistakes, and is one of the main reasons people don't get better in a lot of situations. Of course your case can be different, chronic illness are hard mofos to deal with. But maybe try again going the full length of the treatment.

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how the hell do you move on from someone when youre both still in love but cant be together because of my exs families views on me not being from the same country?

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  • I eloped too. Once you are married you are family. They have to accept that. If they don't screw them. My wife's father was not to keen on the idea of a White son-in-law, but when he saw my devotion to his daughter he changed his mind. If not, well, we were going to make it work anyway.

  • My husband and I didn't care what our families thought! We eloped, they eventually accepted it.

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All I want for my brother is to at least treat me like his sister and respect me as a human being. He's always grumpy of me, I cannot talk to him nicely. He always wanted me to go away. But if he wants to know something or wants to get something to me, he's even bother me on my most busy times. I don't mind. I don't mind anyway because if I do he'll ask my mom what the fuck is my problem. The thing is he's the problem. I can't even tell him these because he won't listen, he'll use his so called Philosophy degree towards me. He won't care and he'll just say, "okay okay now go away." I know he has depression and I understand it but he doesn't have to be a dick to me to show me that he has that problem. He needs help, he probably needs medication but again, he uses this Philosophy mindset that made his life even worse. I think Philosophy is a great thing but using that to every simple things just gives life a bit of conflict. At least he should think like a normal human being. I feel like that degree he pursued went all over his soul. He's so quiet and nice to other people and to our close friends but at home, he's a huge ass hole. I wanted to leave home, I wanted to go. I wanted to stay away from my family and be independent. I mean my reasons towards moving away might just be beyond my brother's attitude but yes it's also my brother's attitude. If he can't move out then I will. I'm just trying to find a way to get a job that provides health insurance since I have a disability that requires a constant care to the hospital. But really... I never understood why he's this abusive to me why he can't treat me nicely. I wanted to know if I don't exist in his life what will happen? I mean I know for sure our friends will ask where was I but mostly I think he just doesn't care. But I want to leave anyway, I just want to stay away from him. All my childhood he was like this. Ever since I have my first memory....

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  • Has a philosophy degree and still lives with his sister. It's safe to say that degree was not profitable.

  • I'm sorry you're going through this :(

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i was sad and down yesterday. i hate it. but im glad that there also some people who living like me so i wont feel alone. and i dont get it why people around me can live their life so damn fine while im trying so hard to at least not cry in a day. i ever tried to tell my friends about what ive been through and stuff but they didnt understand. i really hope today can end well. good luck for us today, lets start our day and eat delicious meals. lets make ourselves happy although for me today is not such a good day ;(

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i wanna have friends. i do have friends but still i feel alone, and im afraid to be in friendship thingy knowing everyone come and go and that always happen when i just accept them as my close friends. and i also dont have a boyf yet i feel so empty. i have no interest in my college things also ewh im tired

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  • Don't try to find happiness in people. Find fulfilling activities to make you happy, and you'll usually meet people doing them.

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My life is so hard that I want to start consuming drugs, alcohol or cigarettes. ... I want to cut myself in pieces and I can't stop fucking crying. I want to run away from everything and everyone and just be alone. i haven't told this to anyone & was keeping it in myself up untill now. Please tell me what to do I want to kill myself & I tried couple of times...

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  • If your serious and ur not just fucking around on here just for kicks( which would be sick and twisted and someone who never lost anybody 2 suicide )but if your serious about this GET HELP NOW find a therapist who u trust and can bond with. you might have 2 see a few b4 u have that connection but it will help u immensely i know from peraonal experience. Please dont keep yourself alone in this to fight your demons. tell a parent sibling or any relative u trust and love and that loves u if u dont have anyvbody like that im sure u have a trusted friend who cares about that would help u in this. u dont wanna keep this shit bottled up or your r e gonna end up dead at your own hands. not to be morbid or uncaring just blunt and brutality honest

  • heyy how are you now? i hope youre doing okay. its okay, just take a deep breath. hard life is not just you who feel it. i feel it too, youre not alone. do what makes you happy and eat delicious meals!

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