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I don't give a fuck. And I don't know why.

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  • Maybe you could try talking to some of those free counselors online?

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Long story short we'd been friends for a years, not best friends but friends none the less. I moved away, she didn't make the effort to really keep in touch so I stopped, we basically haven't spoken in over half a year. A few weeks ago whilst going through my FB I noticed that she'd removed me as a sister, don't even know when she did that. I should have asked her about it then but I decided to leave it. This morning I was going to message her on Whataspp, saw that it looks like she's blocked me, no profile pic or last seen showing anymore. I'm actually depressed over this because we had a laugh when we did see each other and had never fallen out. I don't know why they would do this. Can anyone relate? Sorry for the lame blogpost but this has actually depressed me, I basically have no friends anymore.

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  • Long distance friendship isn't for everyone. And she removed you as a sister because she grew out of the Facebook stuff and found it childish. She also got a new number and either completely forgot that she has to tell people or she figured since you haven't talked in ages, it would be weird and that since you never reach out to her anymore, you wouldn't want to know. -no, of course I can't look into her head and know that this is what went through it, but I myself have been exactly that friend countless times and almost never stopped talking to someone or deleted them because I didn't like them anymore. And if one of those friends contacted me again because they miss me, I'd be very happy and glad to arrange a date to find out whether we could reconnect. So consider trying that with her. If she doesn't want to, then that's sad for you, but without trying it's also sad so why not give it a shot?

  • If you guys weren't best friends to begin with, idk why you were even listed as sisters on fb, so I wouldn't be too hurt by that; I recently cleaned up my own fb a bit and removed a lot of former friends from my 'family' tags. They're not family. As for being blocked, she may have just deleted her account, not actually blocked you. But if she didn't care enough to talk to you anyway, don't waste your time crying over her. Friends come and go, and that sucks, but it's a fact of life; most friends aren't going to stick around forever. People drift apart. Sometimes you just need to let it happen. Let her go. You can make new friends, it is possible, even for people like me with depression and social anxiety.

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So, I take my purity plegde in my highschool year. Now I'm in college and I really want to have a boyfriend. But I'm afraid if he ask for sex, and I say no, and he left me. Like, is it that hard to keep a relationship away from sex for like a couple of years?

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  • Did i land in a parallel universe or something?? what the f u c k is a purity plegde?

  • I'll be real with you, if word gets around college that there is a virgin that is waiting, you will have so many serious suitors. You may get resentment from some jealous girls though. The only guys you are missing out on are the ones who just wanted a pump and dump anyway.

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I wish my brain would quit whispering lies to my heart, telling me I'm not good enough and never will be. Trying to convince me that everyone would be better off without me. Making me worry that things won't ever actually get better and all this work will be for nothing. I know it's not true, I KNOW it's not, but a small part of me can't help but doubt, can't stop myself from wondering 'What if I'm right? What if I really should just die and save myself and everyone the trouble?' and I hate it. I don't want to think these things. I don't want to die, I don't want to give up, I don't want to hate myself. Why can't I shake these thoughts?

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  • They're definitely hard to get away from. I think I've got them squashed and there they come again. I don't know if its even possible to get rid of them entirely. You just learn techniques to negate their effect on you. Personally my voice ''sounds'' like my abuser so I mostly don't listen out of spite.

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I really need to get my thesis done, or I'm screwed. But it sooooooooo hard to look for motivation and nothing could motivate me enough. I'd prefer to stay at home rather than doing my thesis, means I have to meet my lecturer. I don't have any problem with her, just I don't wanna go. I don't know...

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  • *whispers in german* make a rough outline and then pay someone to write it for you based on your ideas

  • Maybe the topic for your thesis is shit? I find it very hard to work on something that doesn't really interest me. I once wrote a thesis that was a very niche interest of mine, and I was so thrilled to actually find out more about it for MYSELF and to convince other people to see it the way I do that I had that thing done in two days, even though I'm normally the kind of person who writes one word and then has to take a 6 day break out of exhaustion.

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So, my friend spent the night last night. I work third shift, so I was gone all night, but my sister was here, and she's friends with her too so it was fine. So I tell them that I plan on getting up decently early so that I can hang out with them, instead of sleeping all day like usual since I don't have to work tonight. Well, I got up at 1. They had been gone for a long time already. I called them multiple times. No answers. Another hour went by, no sign of them. I started panicking a bit because I was worried they had wrecked the car or something. Well my sister calls me back around 2:30, and after saying hello, the first words out of her mouth are "Yeah, you can go back to sleep if you want...-" Ouch. "-I texted mom, but I forgot to tell you; we went to the movies.-" Double ouch. "-Now we're on our way to the park to use [friend]'s spirit box. (friend mumbles in background) Yeah, you can come with us if you want? Should we come get you?" I respond with "Well, I have to get mom up at 3." She just says "Oh. Guess I'll see you later then." and we hang up. My feelings are beyond hurt that they just fucking ditched me. And the worst part is, this isn't the first time they've done this. I hate feeling like I'm a fucking third wheel with my own best friend.

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I thought he was going to live on forever

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I still look at women when I'm not at home but it's nothing like before. I want to have sex with some but that's it, I don't want to know them. Even if could get past my fear of talking to women I don't want them to know me cause I'm a retard and an asshole. People that know me well are aware of this. One of my female friends (she had a thing for me in the past) asked me once why I didn't had a gf which I replied that I don't want one because I don't want to drag anyone with me as I go into a downward spiral. Believe me when I tell you all that my life is going nowhere and I'm likely to disgrace myself rather than improve it even the slightest bit.

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  • Get checked out to make sure you don't have any STD's, buy yourself a hooker, and go wild. Nobody said you can't have sex with other consenting adults. Just be careful when you do so. Maybe even get a vasectomy if you're looking for a high body count. Nobody likes surprise babies and nobody likes paying child support.

  • Being an asshole and spiraling downward is a choice. You could choose not to.

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You think it's easy being me? I'm a disfuncional adult, never had a girlfriend or sex, had friends but pissed all of them and only three talk to me now (I hate one of them btw), can't drive because of my anxiety, can't get a job because of anxiety and the of not belonging anywhere. That's right: I am an outcast, a pariah and always have been since I can remember.

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  • I have anxiety, took me more than 15 tries to get my driver's license. I work at retail, the nightmare of social anxiety, I hide in the bathroom and cry daily at my job. Then go on with my day, because I need the money, I'm finishing college as well. I have one day off every week where I just hide and eat junk and play video games all day. That helps me recharge for the next week. All of these because I refuse to give in to my issues and be a pity case.

  • How are you alive? Like food and utilities?

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I hate my life so much and yet I don't do anything to improve it

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  • Then what do you expect?

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