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My father sexually abused me as a child. Outside of that, we had a good father daughter relationship going fishing, camping, talking about politics, shopping, etc. I’m 21 now, moved out last year and didn’t talk to him this entire time. Am I wrong for wanting to spend time with him again? I miss our trips and bonding and just having that male figure in my life. My boyfriend thinks it’s Stockholm syndrome but I don’t know. I just miss him because we were basically best friends. And I don’t feel that if I were to spend time with him now the way we did before that anything like that would happen. I just don’t know what to do or what’s wrong with me. Am I wrong for wanting to spend time with him or at least have some kind of a relationship? Because right now he’s basically a stranger and I haven’t heard his voice in over a year. Please help

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  • Question: what do you want him to say? Should he apologize? What is your best case scenario here?

  • I just see it like that: What he did was completely morally wrong and a crime, but if you do not overtly suffer from it have a good relationship with him, you should probably think about just leaving that in the past...and probably call him out for it...

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I see no future that's good for me. Either I die before I reach 50 due to my health problems or I become a homeless person.

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  • Nothing is set in stone. Your future depends on what you choose to do.

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I hate my job so much that I don't know how to stand it. I've already tried multiple different occupations and every one was worse than the other one. I know, I know. I should keep trying new things until I find something that's right for me. But the reality is that you can't keep quitting job traineeships, I already had a hard enough time getting accepted in my current one because it's hard to convince an employer that you will stay with him If you've quit so many before. There's also the social pressure that's crippling me and is making me feel even more like an absolute failure. The worst thing is that I know what I want, but there doesn't seem to be a profession that meets all my priority expectations, so there's always that one thing that absolutely sucks and makes my life hell but the alternative isn't better, it's just a different hell. I'm difficult, I know that, but what can I do? I don't know. I'll just stay in this one and see how long I can make it before I shut down.

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  • No job should make you feel that way. Yeah, the 'perfect' job doesn't exist. But if you hate every single job THIS much, to quit before you even finish training, you're just being overdramatic. Hear me out before you argue. Any job takes time to get used to. Any job will feel like it's awful in the beginning until you actually get into the swing of things and start making friends there. And if you quit in training, you're not even giving yourself a chance for that to happen. When I first started my job, I thought I'd made a horrible mistake. My first month or two sucked. But then I got used to it and I actually started to like it a little bit. Now I don't know if I want to work anywhere else. Things aren't always easy. Maybe instead of calling it 'hell' when you dislike an aspect of a job, give yourself a chance to adjust and look at all the things about it that you DO like. Don't focus on the bad things, you'll never be happy that way.

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I confess my feelings to Jay..And now he's ignoring me...I just said that i like him but i'm not asking to be liked back if he really don't have feelings for me..He blocked me on facebook and messenger although we still see each other at school but he's acting like i'm stranger....

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  • Ew dodged a bullet there. He a sounds immature because he runs from things that make him uncomfortable instead of facing them.

  • What an immature dick.

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Lying to others is something I love to do but at the end of the day, I remember the lie, I cringe, I get mild emotional breakdown, and I get PTSD (no kidding I developed it from that) and then I told myself," I'm not doing it to other people again." But here comes my childhood trauma of trust issues and I lie again. I basically just lied to them again and I have always lied to myself over and over.... If my childhood never happened I wouldn't have an impulse to lie especially when people ask me question (even that question is not even personal). I never wanted to lie but i felt that I needed to lie..

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I wish i was as handsome as pewdiepie

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  • yall just haters. have you ever seen me? i am ugly as hell and would be glad to look different.

  • Ewww

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I was driving back home when the tire popped. I couldn't keep the car under control. My wife died. I can't forgive myself. I will never love again. It's been 19 years now.

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  • It's not your fault. Things happen, and it's very easy to blame ourselves, but there was nothing you could have done. Please... if you can, try therapy. It might help you work through this pain and guilt.

  • This is so bad but in no way your fault

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I have a 7 month old and I'm pregnant agian. I deffently feel the judgment when I tell people but theres nothing I can do about it. I just got to keep my head up and be positive.

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  • Those people can screw off. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Congrats

  • Who cares what people think? My mom spaced her kids out and she regrets it cause we never got along very well growing up. I'm the oldest, my sister is 5 years younger than me, and my brother is 3 years younger than her. Me and my brother especially never had much in common because I'm so much older than him. Your kids being closer in age means they'll probably have a better relationship. And lots of people pop babies out one after the other. The people who judge are usually the ones who don't understand. Don't listen to them.

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I'm haunted by the pain I caused. I'm so sorry that I hurt you. And sorry that I could have hurt you worse. In my heart of hearts, I don't lpve you because I don't think you're mine. But, after that is said, I wanna take care of you and love you and move past that fact. I hate that I felt that way at all.

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  • Don't be to hard on yourself. In our journey, we can't help it, what matter, you are a better person now. So lighten up a bit, happy holiday.

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I feel worse when it's this time of year.

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