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I'm a compulsive cheater. I hate myself, and I will end my life soon, so this stuff ends.

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  • Don't kill yourself over that. That's stupid. This is a problem that can be fixed. There is an underlying cause behind your cheating if it truly is compulsive and you can't make yourself stop- whether you're addicted to sex or just in some desperate need of validation, there are several possibilities; there are several ways to treat/fix it. But you have to try. You have to seek help and want help. You have to be willing to listen to what they say.

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I talk to myself alot when no one eles is around. I pretend I'm talking to a therapist and then I just start reliving my life. All the times my step dad yelled and hit my for no reason. The time I was molested. My biological dad calling my from jail but then disappearing when he got out. How I had a friend I thought I would have for life but she fucked me over. How I got pregnant and relized I didnt know how to act or even raise a child so I feel like a failure as a mother. It always ends up with me crying cause I realize I dont really have anyone who I feel like really cares. I just annoy them or make them uncomfortable when I try and talk about my problems. I know going to an actual therapist could help me. But they are just a stranger who wants money I don't even have.

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  • Most therapists didn't get that job because they want money, they got that job because they wanted to help people. The first therapist might not be the right one for you. The second either, or the third, but you keep trying new ones until you find one who clicks with you. One who gets you and helps you. Because there will be one who can help you. You need to work through and process what you've been through so you can move on with your life. As far as your parenting skills... every parents thinks they're not good enough. Every parent feels totally unprepared. You are not alone in that. Just take care of your kid the best you can, teach them to be good and kind, and you'll be a good parent. Nobody is perfect. We all just do the best we can.

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I went to confess my thoughts, but then I realized that I didn't know what words to use. I live with my boyfriend and his 1 year old son, because his ex walked out on his sons life. Now He makes me feel like I'm in the wrong about everything, he says that I complain about everything, that "it's never enough". I just am tired of being put down... I'm the one staying home and cooking, cleaning, taking care of his son, and I don't even have any friends or family to talk to anymore. advice?

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  • Perhaps we now know why Mommy took off. He sounds like a real peach.

  • Well, before you walk out, you can tell him that negging you is not helping. If he wants more positive results he should praise the good things you do. People won't remember what you say but they will damn sure remember how you make then feel. He's being a Debbie Downer and it's rubbing off. Doing positive stuff together like exercise or goals and fun might help.

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I don’t really know what I’m depressed about. I’m 19 now, and I’ve been feeling like this since I was 7. My own family doesn’t know how to support me, because they don’t know how it feels to be depressed. I started to believe what sister said to me that I’m actually a failure, cause doesn’t matter how many times I tried, I still failed. That I’m actually a disappointment to my parents and so on. I accept it now. I’m thinking of getting warded, bcs I really wanna rest. There’s a war inside my head and being at home doing chores and having to function like a human being makes it worse bcs there’s nothing i want more than killing myself.

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  • Man I was in the same boat as you at 19 :( Don't let your sister make you feel that way, though. You're not a failure. Success isn't measured by how much you win, it's measured by how much you try. As long as you keep trying, you're not a failure; you just haven't gotten to your goal yet. Depression isn't your fault, and while it may seem impossible, there are some things you can do to work around it and fight it. The simple things that help me are things like just accomplishing one small task a day, like putting away clean dishes. Just so your day isn't wasted. And things like going and just sitting outside or taking a walk even. Sunlight and vitamin D can boost your mood, even if it won't cure your depression like some neurotypical Karens think it will. Being outdoors is good for your mental health. And be sure to do one thing you enjoy every day, whether it's just soaking in a bath or reading a book you like or even just eating a piece of chocolate. Allow yourself one treat a day to remind yourself that there are good things in life, even if they're small. I probably sound stupid right now, but I swear, these are the things that help me cling to my sanity until I can afford to see a therapist. Best of luck to you, friend. Things will get better.

  • You don't really need a ~reason~ to be depressed. Depression is a chemical imbalance in your brain. Some of us are just dealt a shitty hand. First step would probably be to talk to a doctor or therapist (or both!) about how the depression is impeding your ability to function. You don't have to live like this. There is more to feel than sad and hollow.

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I don't know how to scrape together the will to get up every morning anymore. There's less of it every day. Sometimes I feel like I'd rather die than get up and go to work. It's bad.

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  • I know how you feel :( It's rough. Don't give up though. Just when you're at your lowest is when good things tend to happen. Things will change for you.

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I'm always depressed and people said I have to talk to someone. I mean I don't because every time I say something, they try to change my mindset and say out reasons what I think is a "don't worry it's just..." I mean thanks but I know my problem and how to solve them but bottling them myself makes it worse me. I just want someone who listens and acknowledge what I'm saying and say "I see, I hear you". Talked to so many people everyone is just somehow opinionated. I don't need opinions either nor what to do. I just wanna talk.

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  • I know how you feel.

  • Me too. My new therapist asked what I needed from them the most and I just want acknowledgment that the bad shit was bad and I didn't deserve the abuse. No ones ever told me consistently that I didn't bring it on myself, so its nice to be told every few weeks that I deserve compassion and understanding.

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I don't even know why I'm here. Like on this app. I feel so stupid, but I just really need to let it all out... I have really bad social anxiety and it's caused me to miss out on a lot of things, all I ever feel like doing is sitting in my room on my electronics. People make me really anxious. My social anxiety has also really affected my self esteem and my grades. Making me feel so depressed and alone. I've never told anyone how I truly felt, mostly because I'm afraid they won't understand or they'd end up judging me. It's really hard because I'm AWARE of how pathetic I sound, but I can't help but feel this way. Which makes it worse. It's come to the point where I'm genuinely SCARED to do anything any other normal person would be able to do! I'm scared of meeting new people, going to school, talking on the phone, talking to my teachers, ordering my food at a restaurant, buying something in a store, talking to my FAMILY/Friends... the list goes on. I'm to scared to ask for help... but these past 5 years for me have been hard and I don't think I can do it all alone anymore...

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  • Its absolutely not pathetic to have anxiety. I agree with the other comment, get help if you can. Try to remind yourself you're worthy of help.

  • You're not stupid for being here. Everyone who's here is here for a reason. Also, I understand your struggles with anxiety. I have it too :( I highly recommend therapy if you can afford it, or even trying some form of free therapy online. Headspace helped me a lot. The important thing to remember is that you are not alone- there are lots of us out there- and that it is 100% okay to ask for help. Don't be afraid to ask for help. It does not make you weak. It makes you strong for having the courage to admit your weaknesses.

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I just wish i could desapear

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I don’t think I’m same person to everyone... is that bad?

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  • It's not bad. It's normal sociology. You act differently based on who is around you. You wouldn't talk to your grandma the same way you'd talk to your cat. You wouldn't talk to your best friend the same way you'd talk to your boss' boss' boss. There are different sides of you, but they are all you.

  • It's normal. Different people bring out different aspects of your personality.

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Im doing therapy for 2 months now.. today my therapist told me hes afraid because he had the feeling that im just “living” and waiting the time pass by until i die.. because i dont have any dreams at all and everything for me is just pointless.. :/ the sad thing is.. he is right :/ i dont care about anythung.. i dont have any dreams.. im just living until the time passes by :(.. this made me sad.. it seems to be a “real” problem now since my therapis told it to me.. and now im afraid to live my whole life with no dreams :( i just came home and cried my soul out..

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  • That's the exact reason why you're in therapy. So don't worry, just go there and be open to work on it.

  • first step, I was there. I planned my whole life for college, even went to prep school. family stole my college dream. I wandered around empty and angry for 8 years. 8 years do you hear me?! but you get up anyway and you continue to fight for a reason, or to even have a dream, you take care of yourself ( i mean the little things, get up, shower, read, clean your house, go for a walk, see your friend) and you will come out of it. and you will know yourself and you will find a purpose. I had my first suicide attempt at 8 and then at 12 and 16 and 23 and I'm 27 in 3 days. I'm HERE. shit is not always perfect but I can respect myself for trying my fucking hardest. best of luck to you. idc if you're not religious, when i pray for me, I'll pray for you

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