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Some of my ex friends stopped talking to me because 4 yrs ago I was a mess due to a health problem I had at the time. They said things like I don't have a life and had too much time on my hands to think about what was wrong with everything around me, like petty stuff mostly. I guess some friendships weren't so important to them. True, i was a dick at the time but can you blame me? I thought I was a gonner. People are just too shallow and self centered these days.

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  • same thing happened to me, 3 years ago. and i look back and realise some ppl were never meant to stay. something i realised is that nearly most if not all of the time (expect rarely and those jem of people who stay) you gotta be your own support and go to. and trust me its hard but at the end of the day, no one else got your back like you do

  • Well if you were going through a hard time and they turned on you instead of trying to be there for you, you may be better off. You can always make new friends. It may be possible to fix those friendships, but if not then move on.

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I shouldn't be sending him booty pics, but I really want him to want me. I don't know why I'm trying so hard. My friends tell me I'm way out of his league. (I'm pretty hot tbh) My friends keep telling me they don't want me to put all this effort into someone who isn't down for me but idk.. this boy has got a hook on me for sure.

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  • Maybe he just doesn't want a girl who sends nudes.

  • Let me confess something to you here. I had a girl I knew wanted me, but I didn't want her. I'm married, got a nice family. But I knew this girl fancied me. She'd send me nudes all the time. And I'd play her for those nudes. Let me tell you, he accepts those pics, but he won't stop what he's doing to get with you. You can accept that or live in the illusion that one day he'll be yours. Your choice.

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Feeling lonely and cold. How to find new friends when you're socially awkward..?

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  • engage in small adventures thats where most good friendships are. when you go trough stuff together

  • You could try an app like Bumble! it might not be easy- I've met probably 20 people there and only still talk to 2- but those 2 people are awesome friends.

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I told my friends that I have a boyfriend just to keep their mouth shut from asking when will i have one....I really feel suffocate when I'm with them~it just that I'm different from them, they are smart, easy going and able to catch up with the school lessons and the same time messing, party hard ,around the town and I'm not that kind of person. I can only focused on one thing at a time, and that is studying...I don't have time to play around like they do~date? boyfriend? party?..if i have one of those things, my life will be unbalance. I'm tired of catching up with the things they like, and do..

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  • You don't have to catch up with them

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I jerk off to my gf friends. Last time she brought a friend over, her feet turned me out so much I had to go take one of her shoes in the bathroom. I smelled and masturbated with it, while they were laughing about something in the other room. Not even the strangest thing I did.

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My roommate who was a good friend of mine asked me out on a date but I don't like him that way and now everything is so awkward. I kind of want to leave the house as soon as he walks in, but that would only make things worse as it's obvious I'm avoiding him. Should I just move out? I hate the fact that so much has changed over one simple question I couldn't say yes to...

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  • I say wait a little. My best friend once declared his love for me and I couldn't look him in the eyes anymore, but after some weeks he apologised and said that he's totally over it and that it was just a phase he had. Took another while to really get over it, but I'm now glad I didn't lose him. We sometimes bring it up again and laugh about it. I feel like in almost every man-woman friendship there's eventually the point of one of them thinking about the other one sexually or romantically, but mostly it's just a one-time-thing that passes again. Just see how he handles it, and go through a time of awkwardness, and maybe it will all be okay again.

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I honestly hate and love my best friend and I dont know which one is more . Bcs she and my boyfriend cheated on me .

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  • I hate to say it, but once a cheater, always a cheater largely holds true. Maybe this a bit dark, but you can either move on from both or remain in place - if you stay in place, I suggest you accept they Wil have sex again as it is very likely to happen

  • So sorry to hear that hun

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I just unintentionally hurted a friend's feeling. I feel soo fucking messed up, when ever I try to help I always end up hurting them. he is in love with this girl for 6 to 7 years. they were close but just not enough to make it official years passed and he is still in love with her is hurting every day I dont know how to help him. I tried my best to help him let it go from the pain but he just cant help . he is in depression and I wanna help him but idk how. and seeing him in pain breaks my heart idk if I love him or its just affection .

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  • I told him he dont love her. he is just being clingy and he wants her because he always got what he want . He didnt get mad at me . he just told me to be careful with my words and that if it was some other guy they would have blown up. I apologised to him he said it's ok but I still feel bad ...

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I really like this dude but one of my friends whom i secretly Hate also likes him and now i get to work with him on a project and im gonna try and make him mine but she doesnt know it!

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  • Can you do us all a favor and tone down the edgy high school drama? Why do you pretend to be friends with someone you hate? That's just fucking stupid. And this guy has a mind of his own you know, if he doesn't like you, you can't make him. He is not something to conquer and take ownership of, he's a human being with his own thoughts and feelings who you should be trying to get to know.

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Haven't been able to communicate with a few select people the last past weeks. I just have had zero desire or inclination to reach out. I'm trying to distance myself from those who I let take advantage of me. Its so hard and I've tried many times before but I always give in and make all right for them. Not saying I'm a person pleaser but I do tend to take every problem that's not my own and fix it. First because I can actually do it but also I know I'll do it well and I hate seeing people struggling, even when its their own fault. ESPECIALLY if there are kids involved. It's a sickness I have or blah. This time though I'm really really ~trying~ harder to stick with it. I know now that I need to see myself as a person, a being deserving of all I give to others. I want to be that person to do that for me. Some have been family, some friends, even coworkers but the one that I think I'm most hurt by not being able to talk to is my best friend of 12 years. I knew I needed to step away (if only for a little while) when he told me he knows he's been manipulating me but he didn't apologize. I didn't want to accept that he said such and definitely didn't want an apology but the way he said it to me. Idk he's hurt me so much over the years but I guess he's always known I'll never leave. I don't want to and I miss him with every heartbeat. Its so tough. ANYWHOOOSSS I'm done with the word vomit.

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  • I also tend to be a pleaser or giver and I have the ability to fix a lot of different things for people. eventually people become to rely on you and take advantage of you. I've learned that that's human nature. at some point you will need to distance or separate yourself from those people at 10 to take you for granted or take advantage of you. but your nature will drive you to seek out others who need help or appreciate it more. being a giver or pleasure is in your personality so don't shy away from it just focus on those that need it more or that show some appreciation

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