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I confessed to a close friend that i liked him through an anonymous letter. And he found out it was me, he said along the lines "in our circle who else knows that much about me". The thing is i just wanted to tell him and i don't ask him if he returned my feelings or anything. I told him that im scared if he would be close with other girl in that way... He told me not to worry cause he won't because at the moment he's not looking for any then I just asked if he ever going to be in a relationship that he would let me know. And he just "ok? like asking for blessing?". He said he's touched and thank you for telling him. So then this where i get confused... Should i just act like before? or embrace this new way of friendship with open fact that i like him? At first i want to act like before he knew (since i thought it's the easiest for me to be back to normal?). But he kept teasing me about it, when i ask when he'll be back he said "why? miss me already?". or like if i ask hik something then he would tease me about it again (the fact that i like him). And now our chat will have stickers and emoticons (im normally cold in chats that my girlfriends like to complain about it). When our friend teased him about me he said "well we have a chemistry between us" (i wasnt there at the moment but they still talked about it and our friend teased us again when were side by side then he gestured to put his arm around me... but then i joked around with my friend and he said "sssh go away don't interrupt us")... About teasing, it happened since before i told him like our friends would be "Wow how cute that you guys wear a matching clothes" etc... So i don't actually know how i should act.-.

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  • Since he already said that he doesn't want a relationship, it'd be better to tell him to knock it off. Flirting will likely just make it harder for you to get over him.

  • This is bad! And so cringe worthy! He sounds like a douchebag.

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hey, are you there...

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Well I just wanted to reach out to you because Ive been seeing your depressing statuses. Hoping you're ok but appears to me that you're just trying to shorten the conversation.

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  • What do you mean by shortening the conversation?

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I love him... I do... Even tho my plan was to forget him... I don't think i could... I love him... I just do... When were both ready to have a serious relationship... Can he be my partner then?

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  • Go talk to him !

  • The feelings will fade. Give yourself time.

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To all the people in here... If you fall in love with your bestfriend, don't say it to them... Because they care for you and they won't hurt you... And if you get awkward and keep a distance, they will miss you... I won't say about you... but if you see it in their perspective...

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I am usually the "photo guy", the person who takes the photos at any party, because I'm good at and like taking pictures. Honestly, I think most of the time it's the only reason why I'm invited anywhere because I don't have many friends. Anyways, I usually keep the pictures, even if the people in them aren't my friends, because when I scroll through them from time to time, I pretend they are and that I was having a good time with them. I even have a few of them hanging on my walls as decoration, and to be able to pretend I'm having a social life in case someone visits me. It's pathetic.

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  • You know that’s a career you get paid for, right?

  • You get invited to the parties, so you're enough of a friend tbh

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im over 20, never been in a relationship before and never like a close friend before and it feels weird... cause he asks me for advice and it hurt (pretty much the same never been in a relationship)... so i gave him a love letter and now im nervous wether he had read it or not... and i wonder how we're going to be from now on...

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I am so tired of friends who want me to reach out to them to hang out, but never try to reach back out to me. I have one friend who is a sweet girl, but she only reaches out to me to go to her kids birthday parties, twice a year. I have two kids as well, and still manage to try and talk to her on the phone. But she never tries to reach out to me. I'm tired of a one way friendship. Is that so wrong?

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I am so tired of friends who want me to reach out to them to hang out, but never try to reach back out to me. I have one friend who is a sweet girl, but she only reaches out to me to go to her kids birthday parties, twice a year. I have two kids as well, and still manage to try and talk to her on the phone. But she never tries to reach out to me. I'm tired of a one way friendship. Is that so wrong?

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  • Maybe your friend affraid to contact you when you are busy.

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I've been extremely depressed lately, due to ongoing health issues. I've had to quit my job (health issue limits my lifting capability, the job I had to leave had me lifting an 80 lb machine multiple times a day). A friend of mine knows how stressed I've been (No money, in a lot of pain, generally feeling like a piece of shit) and offered to come over and help me relax by offering to smoke some weed. However, I'm about to start looking for a job next week and I'm concerned about it showing up on a drug test. I don't know shit about weed other than it stays in your system for awhile. I really want to try it, to relax if only for awhile, but I don't want to screw up a chance at a job.

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