Dear men, if your buddy told you he was raped by another guy, how would you react? How would you feel about it? Would you treat him differently? Look at him differently? Be honest. Thanks.
No one survives alone.
one of my bestfriends has just bought and moved into his first house. 4 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, driveway, big garden. he had us round the other night and it has really kicked my motivation up the ass! he does the same job im currently at school to get a qualification to do. that currently is my biggest goal, coupled with finding a nice girl...which i think i have but weve only just started seeing eachother right now!
i have this problem that is ruining my relationships and life its an unconventional fear of hanging out with only one person even being on the phone with one person i loose friends beacouse of this fear i cant go out if im going out with only one person i m afraid of awkward silence or afraid of being boring i cant even text someone if its not a group chat im not afraid of people im just i dont know afraid of awkward silence this problem is ruining my life and my relationships i dont know what to do about it i cant live like this anymore i will do anything to avoid staying alone with only one person even if it is a friend
Has anybody ever been caught masturbating. if yes what happen after.
I'm sick of opening up to people I think are friends only to find they're just trying to get their dick wet.
so here's my roomate keeping me up for nights crying. what i know is, all of it was her fault. she lies a lot. like i mean most of the times she lies. then her ldr boyfriend found out-fight-cry-i wake up vut pretending to sleep because no. im tired of dealing with ur problems. i have my own life to bitch. you're the one who caused the problems, solve it by urself. sounds like a bad friend. but i have sacrificed a lot of things for her before until i know she lied a lot to me too. no im tired of u
Last night I made a post about my “friends” ignoring me except when they come to me for all of their problems. Well, today when I turned on my phone during my break did I get a good morning text? No! How are you? No! A simple what’s up or what you doing? Nope!!! I got a voicemail asking me to call back asap because they’re lost and need help finding a store. I got a text asking for a ride to the mall after I get off work so they can go Christmas shopping. I got another text asking to help look for some game online and lastly another text from one of my coworkers asking me to bring her food. I ignored all of them, sorry I’m busy. They all know I work (unless they weren’t paying attention the past few years). They can’t even pretend to act semi interested in my life. It’s not like I’m a clingy person that expects to be talked to every minute of the day. It would just be nice to be talked to without being asked for a favor. A simple “Hey” or “good morning” goes a long way.. even “good morning, can you bring me some food” is better than “get food before u come in” I’m going to keep ignoring until they say something other than a demand
It sucks being around people that don’t care about you. These people don’t even listen to me when I talk and I was told that straight to my face. Yesterday I was talking about something and then asked a question and they said “I wasn’t listening to anything you said”. Today I was talking about something else and then they asked me something I had already mentioned so I said “I already said that” and they said “oh I didn’t hear a word you said”. It’s so rude and disrespectful to ignore someone that’s having a conversation with you especially when I’m not even the one that initiated the entire thing. Why even bother talking to me in the first place if you can’t be bothered to hear what I have to say for 30 seconds. Im done with giving my time and putting my effort towards people that don’t give a damn about my feelings. I’ve been nothing less than a great friend to everyone I know. Guess who everyone comes to when they need help.. ME.. y’all don’t even know how many times a day I get texts and calls from different people asking “how do i do this” “where do i do that” “how do i get here” “where can I find that”. Every fuckin day it’s something new. I even got my friend a job where I work and sacrificed HALF of my hours (hundreds of dollars) for 3 months because she desperately needed the money to fix her car and pay for a medical expense. I went from being employed full time to only being part time and splitting my shift because that’s the type of friend I am. I’ve actually helped quite a few friends find jobs. I don’t even feel like what I do is going above and beyond I just thought that’s how you treat friends and family. When they need help you do what you can. When they need someone to talk to you’re there for them. For some reason I don’t get that in return from anybody. I got 10 people expecting me to put them first and 0 people putting me first. Even in relationships I’ve always gotten the short end of the stick. If any of you ever met me you would see that I’m a damn good friend and a damn good girlfriend. Some of these people i’ve been friends with 5-10 YEARS and not once have I ever screwed them over, treated them badly, stole their boyfriend, lied to them.. none of that. I can’t even count how many times i’ve fronted the bill when we’ve gone out to eat. How many times ive given rides for no gas money. How many times i’ve had to be captain save a hoe. Part of me has dealt with it because it’s going to hurt to lose a friendship of 10 years or 5 years, 8 years , whatever the case may be. I guess it just comes down to what hurts more.. the cut or removing the bandaid from the cut when it’s healed. Now that I’m out of school new friends are hard to come by. It’s not like i can just replace them all with new friends. Once there gone who knows when Ill find someone new, id ever.
there are so many things going wrong. its like my world is crumbling in slow motion. but everyone in NY life thinks this growing depression is solely about them so it makes it hard to talk to anyone.