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I have these two friends one is a social climber who whined about how she hates going to college and the other one whose in undergrad ever since I was 10 years old and is there for 10 years straight (no gap year or anything just took all 5 majors and is in financial debt) complains about how she wants to stop the regrets, wants everything to be better but isnt even willing to listen or take actions to her problems. Well i get emotionally furstrated at these two who are my actual loyal friends. Well i want to kind of avoid them because theyre that. Help them? impossible. So i just look at the good side, theyre my inspiration to be this person I dont want to be. To not be insecure of myself, to be honest, to be save money and not spend it on pointless things, accept my regrets so that i dont have a larger permanent regret that damages my freedom to succeed, to be realistic, to be willing to listen, to be open minded, to learn that everyone has their personal values and beliefs and cant expect to let them to think like me but only to accept the value and belief, and generally just not to be flat out like them. I know it makes me better than them but Im not gonna unfriend then.. maybe avoid them becaude id feel bad if someone leaves them who is their friend. But like i guess i could say this, im an adult and in college and if my community does not grow its time to move one. Its doesnt matt about the age (theyre waaaayyyy older than me) both are late 20s who acts like teens and im 19 and theyre mindset was me when was 17 in high school... i also learned from this, find friends who are actually open and have the same goals as you and does not give you this trouble only if theyre in trouble thwyre willing to be aware too that they themselves are in trouble and does not expect that their friends does their life for them.. it doesnt matter that age it matter the person. Well i need to leave these people.m maybe slowly.... im an introvert so its harder to make friends but its better than with friends that drains you awfully.

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  • Sounds like you need to have a talk with them. Just be honest. Tell them you can't handle their constant whining and complaining, and if they don't want help, to shut up about it or you'll stop talking to them, because it's emotionally taxing to spend time with people who spew negativity and refuse to accept any kind of positive influence. You need to think of yourself and your own mental health. You will make more friends. Trust me, I'm an anxious, shy introvert too.

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3 years ago after doing chemo and other treatments I was a mess. I was very anxious, temperamental and snapping at people for the simplest shit. Lost all my friends, except one guy I kinda hate. Thankfully my best friend and I have reconnected. It's not the same anymore though, he isn't available as before because he's getting married in the Summer.

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  • I think if those people were really your friends, they would have stuck with you. It's understandable that you would be stressed, not to mention side effects of any treatments and medications you had. You're probably better off without those people. I encourage you to try to make new friends

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I have literally no friends anymore except for one who lives abroad, so I basically have no friends. Noone I can hang out with, noone I can talk to. And I don't even hate it. The only thing I hate about it is that it's embarassing in front of my family, potential partners and acquaintances. But the thing itself is cool for me. I like not having to go outside or listen to people's problems. I talk to myself a lot. I need help.

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i told him that i love him for the first time in my life...

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the guy who raped me wouldn't give me my clothes back or let me leave.... so I was stuck at his place naked...fell asleep after crying myself to sleep and went home the next morning.

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  • It is still not too late to lodge a police report. Seek professional help. I was raped 2 years ago and it took me more than 8 months to let even my mother touch me. It messes up your mind and life big time, I understand. But you have to keep moving. If reporting him is not your aim, then please please get some help. You need lots of care and love. Trust me, the scar will not fade. But it will definitely stop bleeding. Only if you nurse it with love and care. I wish you all success

  • Please tell someone what happened. Send that asshole to jail. Don't shower if you haven't already.

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You captivated me and acted like nothing goes wrong? And you became a innocent? You've already deceived me and I know you did that fucking shit. You're like a coin. Unfortunately not valuable, but two faced :)

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Dear men, if your buddy told you he was raped by another guy, how would you react? How would you feel about it? Would you treat him differently? Look at him differently? Be honest. Thanks.

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  • By not judging him, just by standing by his side, continue being the friend, hang out and play together, is the best support you can give to your friend.

  • I was molested, I could tell him that I know at least some of the pain. We would just hang out like normal and no judging. It was done when I was sleeping at my friend's house and I just have gotten sleep paralysis, he climbed into bed and just started rubbing himself on me. I was so scared and I couldn't even move, my friend that was in the same room didn't even do anything. He just watched. My friend that owned the house kicked his ass. It's a very polarizing feeling, We were both "bros" and he just... did that. He doesn't even act like he's done anything wrong. I cried so hard that night.

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No one survives alone.

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  • no one survives. thats it. we all die.

  • except a lone survivor . . . .

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one of my bestfriends has just bought and moved into his first house. 4 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, driveway, big garden. he had us round the other night and it has really kicked my motivation up the ass! he does the same job im currently at school to get a qualification to do. that currently is my biggest goal, coupled with finding a nice girl...which i think i have but weve only just started seeing eachother right now!

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  • Best of luck to both you and your gf.

  • Which job?

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i have this problem that is ruining my relationships and life its an unconventional fear of hanging out with only one person even being on the phone with one person i loose friends beacouse of this fear i cant go out if im going out with only one person i m afraid of awkward silence or afraid of being boring i cant even text someone if its not a group chat im not afraid of people im just i dont know afraid of awkward silence this problem is ruining my life and my relationships i dont know what to do about it i cant live like this anymore i will do anything to avoid staying alone with only one person even if it is a friend

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  • You should get help. This sounds like some kind of psychological issue.

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