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all my friends are men that I sleep with or men that vanish when they get a girlfriend. I have no one real in my life

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I'm torn between standing up for myself or going back to the ones that hurt me.

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So, I lost most of my friends because the friendships weren't really deep and many of them moved away after school. Then I lost a friend because of a reason I still don't understand, he just stopped talking to me. Another one got into a relationship and basically vanished. Now I have 3 remaining friends, my best friends. One of them lives in another country and therefore me mostly just text. The second one is the "We meet once a year and it's always awesome but then you don't hear from me for another year" type. And now, the third one is mad at me. I don't even really know why. She just suddenly told me that I'm awful and later didn't apologize, so it's still quite cold between us. I just have no idea what I'm doing wrong to be left by everyone.

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  • It's not a problem with you. Friends just come and go, it's an unfortunate part of life

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I have a overweight friend that purposely doesn't eat in front of my friends and I. I know she's hungry because we hangout 8 hours on some days and I've known her for 5 years. Never once do I see her eat a goddam thing. I feel so bad that she's not comfortable

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  • My boyfriend still can't eat in front of me because he was really fat growing up. He's not skinny now, but he's not fat. We'll go out to dinner and he'll eat probably 3 bites of his food and just save the rest for later when he's alone. It breaks my heart that he doesn't feel comfortable eating in public or even around me, and it kills me that I can't do anything to help him. I used to be that way, and I'd even go days without eating more than a sandwich when I spent the night at friends' houses because I hated thinking that if someone sees a fat person eat, they're essentially just watching them be fat. I've gotten out of that mindset over time but it was really hard and it wasn't something anyone could help me with

  • Maybe if you offer her healthy food? I don't know if she can't do that too, but maybe she does. You could bring some carrots or other vegetables and offer everyone some.

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There used to be a lot of people on here and I looked forward to reading everyone's post. Nowadays everyone is suicidal and wants someone else to solve their problems.

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  • Suicide confessions are common because it's something that people can't talk to their loved ones about without backlash.

  • There are probably about 20 people who still use this site, 15 of them can't leave because it's the only way to get their problems off their chest or try to solve their own problems by shit talking other people, 3 of them are sexually insane people who need to live out their sexual fantasies in every possible way and 2 are just normal dudes like you.

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I made a new friend some months ago. We hang out a couple of times, mostly at bars or clubs. He often payed, because I have the problem of never having cash with me, but always promised to pay it back. And I did! I must admit that he sometimes had to remind me, but it was never the case that he needed the money for something or that I tried to make excuses to keep it. So, in my opinion, everything was alright. We then went on vacation together, with some other people. It was fun, we never got on each other's nerves like it can happen on vacation, I thought it was awesome. We went home, talking about how we have to hang out again soon, especially on his birthday. Well, can you already guess it? After that, I texted him, and didn't get a text back, even though he was online. I tried multiple times. On his birthday, I called and he didn't pick up. Now the friends we went on vacation with (he doesn't know them as long as me, and he didn't seem to have more fun with them than with me) are invited to his birthday party - I am not. I just don't get it. I guess it's because of the money, but it doesn't make any sense. He could've just said that he won't lent me money again if it annoys him so much. But I don't get how you can end a fun friendship over that?

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  • if you dont owe hin anything and you cant really talk to him then let it go.. perhaps one of these days he will contact you.. but he is a bit strange..

  • I doubt it's the money if you always paid him back. He just sounds like a dick honestly. He's probably upset that you don't love him or something stupid like that. Many men pay for things and expect sex or at least love in return.

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one of my closest friends just got engaged, I am nervous... I would love to be apart of her special day but I also know the girl is social and has like 30 friends that all want to be apart of her day. She's talked to many of us about wedding plans for over a year with us. I don't know why I have so much anxiety over who is going to be apart of her day.

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  • You care about you're friend and you hope she cares as much about you. You would feel dissappounted and heartbroken if you're not a part of her big day. Which is normal. You sound as a good friend :)

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This is my #MeToo story. I was sexually assaulted, but not nearly as bad as most people, so I feel bad sharing and have never really told anyone, not in detail. When I was in high school, I had a friend who was going through a bad breakup. He asked if I would kiss him just to get his mind off of her. He thought it might help him stop thinking of her. So I, wanting to help him, agreed to kiss him once. But a few days later he kissed me again, even though I told him I only wanted to do it the one time. He kissed me again a week or two after the second time, and he started using his tongue and groping my breasts. I wanted to hit him, to scream, to do anything to stop him, but I just couldn't. I couldn't move, couldn't speak. It was like I was frozen. And he took my silence to mean that it was okay. He even stuck his hand down my shirt to further fondle my breasts. He grabbed my hand and placed it on his pants so I could feel his erection. But he didn't go any farther because we were in my driveway, in his car, and my dad came outside to smoke. I went in my house acting like nothing happened because I felt ashamed and I blamed myself for not saying no. To this day, only my closest friends know it even happened, and no one knows the details. But I'm sharing it here. I feel the need to tell someone even though it's too late to do anything, even though it's not as bad as some stories. I want people to know that silence does not mean yes. SILENCE DOES NOT MEAN YES. Not saying no does not make something okay, and people need to hear that message. If someone does not consent and say yes/it's okay, THE ANSWER IS NO.

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  • its crazy but i have a similar story which i've never shared and dont think i will.. i also feel ashamed i know i shouldnt but i do.. thank you for sharing

  • preach it.

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It hurts me so unbelievably much when I'm excluded from fun activities and then hear others talk about it. I mean, it's kind of logical and I guess everyone feels that way, but I think in my case, it's even worse. It doesn't only sting, it's not only like a slap in the face. It feels more like being hit by a truck and being left there on the road, people passing by and ignoring my dying body. Last night my boyfriend was on his friend's party - an 'open' party at a bar so it would've been well possible to invite me, but nobody did. I cryed myself to sleep and when I woke up, he sent me a text: "it's 6 am and I'm only home now, wow what a party." Boom. Truck. Just go and have fun without me, everybody. I know I'm lame and don't drink and that you all find me so weird that even my own boyfriend is glad when I'm not there. Let me die here on the street like roadkill.

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  • Dude... He isn't glad you're not there. No one is going to invite you to a party at a bar when you don't drink. That's considered courteous. I'm not a big drinker and my boyfriend and his friends would always say 'oh we should all hang out sometime' but they'd never invite me to hang out because all they did was drink together, and they know that it makes me uncomfortable. I'm okay with /a/ drink, when people start getting drunk it makes me uncomfortable because of experiences with my dad being an alcoholic. But long story short it doesn't mean they don't like you. They just don't want you to feel left out when you don't drink with them, ironic as that sounds. They're leaving your plans free to go do something you'll have more fun with.

  • Maybe they just think you wouldn’t want to go if you don’t drink. I don’t drink too and parties are rubbish when you’re sober, my friends sometimes invite me, sometimes they don’t. I don’t really care to be honest because I wouldn’t go anyway but I guess if it’s a meal or something that you would definitely want to go to then that hurts.

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