My friend and I are going on a trip. He has a coupon for the hotel, so he doesn't have to pay for the hotel night (one night, about $50) at all. I don't have a coupon, so I suggested that we split the $50 - he says, since he's the lucky one having it for free, he doesn't want to split it. I say it's cheap of him, he says it's cheap of me. I don't know who's right
My bestfriend and I have always pretended to be gay as a laugh, everyone knew that we werent but just pretwned that we were so new kids would get confused and think that we were in a relationship. The other day, we were walking home and he told me whe was gay. At first I thoght he was joking then i realised that he was being serious. I told him that I was completly fine with him being gay and had nothing against it. the next thing i know he kissed me but instead of pushing him away I acceptes it i held him in a bit longer. When we stopped I just looked at him and he said sorry and just walked away. Because of the kiss Im now confussed, I have no idea why he kissed me and I have no idea why I didnt stop him, Im sure Im not gay but I cant stop thinking about him and how much i liked the kiss...
People keep preaching how you shouldn't stay in a friendship that's making you sad, but I've gotten a lot of shit for following that advice. My friend is sick. Mentally. She has depression, some sort of other things I never really understood and at the end, even a chronical bodily illness. At our school, we were seen as THE bestie couple since 5th grade, until in senior year it became too much for me. I could never talk about MY problems because she wouldn't listen to it - what was my heartbreak against her need to take pills to have control over her body? She was barely there when I wanted to hang out, but I had to hang out with her when she wanted it, or else she got mad - after all, I could just cancel plans, she couldn't cancel panic attacks. I had to watch her cry, cheer her up, listen to her going on about how awful her conditions were all the time. And sure, she needed someone to console her, but it was making me be in a bad mood constantly, too. At the end, I couldn't take it anymore, and ended our friendship. I tried doing it not abruptly, but slowly so it would hurt less, but she confronted me and I couldn't lie to her when she asked if I'd always be there for her. Well, popular as she was at school, a lot of people hated me and asked me how I could to that to her, because she was so miserable already. I often wonder if what I did was being a shitty friend, or if it was taking care of myself. I guess both is true, but one more.
I try my damn best to become a more likable person. I've started to take care of my appearance to make myself more confident. I stopped assuming that every time someone says something I can't hear it's shit talk about me. I started saying yes or at least considering the plans instead of saying no by default. I stopped telling people shitty excuses to cancel plans and actually dragged my ass off the couch. I even put an effort into talking to new people instead of hiding from them behind my phone. So why is my life getting worse? Why am I having less friends that ever before, why do the ones I have don't seem to want me on their parties anymore? I don't know what to do. If this continues, I will be all by myself in a few years, spent every Friday night crying and drinking on my own. I don't want this.
It sucks when someone you like tells you about their evening plans without inviting you. You think well, maybe they think I don't want to go, so you make it really obvious that you do - only to have them stutter and think of a really bad excuse why "you wouldn't have fun there anyway". Like that your ex is there. From 9th grade. Who you've seen on parties before, what obviously didn't bother either of you. I think I will have to accept that I'm not wanted.
It sucks not being able to go to parties with your boyfriend because of social anxiety. I know and like his friends, but still don't know them well enough to not have my fear of socially interacting with then kick in. It's not that my boyfriend is mad or anything, he is actually very understanding, but it really sucks that I can't even attend his birthday parties because I'm too anti social. I can't bring a friend of mine though, because I only have one and she doesn't want to come along anymore.
I need advice,I'm pretty sure there's something wrong with me.Okay anyways I have a girlfriend and we're pretty close her her cousin(a guy ) So a couple weeks back I introduced them to an old friend of mine and after she left,my gf's cousin mention he likes her.I don't have a problem with that but I get hurt when my girlfriend accused me of being jealous of my friend because I get mad or annoyed whenever they mention her.The thing is,I'm not jealous .I just feel like I could be easily replaced because my friend is way prettier,skinny and she doesn't have mad mood swings like I do.Im afraid one day my gf and her cousin decide to like her better and kick me out of our lil trio.So please help me guys, I think I'm just too insecured about myself but idk
Everyone hates me. I try to be friendly but no one likes me. I wish i knew what was wrong with me. It hurts so much
the guy who raped me didn't use a condom and I'm so scared..... I know he's been with quite alot of people and I'm so afraid...
My friend just compared us to Raven and Chelsea from the That's so Raven show. She also took the time to make it very clear to me that I am Chelsea. I feel very insulted. I'm noticing she often feels the need to put me down to make herself feel better and although she's my only friend in the world, I'm wondering if she's becoming too toxic to keep around.