When I was about 18, I was just starting to figure out my sexuality and I was just beginning to come to terms with my attraction to women. I developed a crush on one of my close friends, and I ended up telling her about it even though I knew she didn't like me back. She was nice about it, she actually said she was flattered, but just wasn't gay. Flash forward to today, 4 years later. This friend and I aren't as close as we used to be, but we still care about each other a lot, adulting just got in the way of being able to spend time together. She messages me today and says she's now dating a mutual friend of ours... who is a girl. I'm really happy for them, and honestly I think they're great for each other. But I can't help but feel the tiniest bit jealous. Like why couldn't you have realized you were bi when I had a crush on you? But, I'm glad she's finally figured out who she is and I'm glad they ended up together. I just can't help but wonder if me confessing my love for her actually made her contemplate her sexuality or if it led to this somehow. Guess I'll never know.
I have a small crush on this girl at work. I doubt she's even remotely interested, and while there's a possibility of her being bi, it's not likely. But I'd like to get to know her and maybe be friends with her cause she seems really nice and like a cool person to hang out with. How do I do that? Should I send her a friend request on Facebook, or will that creep her out? Should I just invite her to go hang out, or is it weird if I come up out of nowhere to invite her somewhere? How do humans socialize?
I was worried she would grow feelings that would complicate out friendship if we had sex... Now here I am feeling jealous and sad knowing she's hanging out with another dude right now. What the hell, brain?
between having a boyfriend or girlfriend, I'm more interested in making friends. Because I feel so damn alone. My therapist asked who I can talk about my problems. I said nobody... Like in my opinion, I never wanna make friends just because they're my emotional garbage can. I wanna be friends with them so that I can have someone to call family and go places with. i'm so tired of going out alone.
I never thought I'd be into threesomes, but the more I think about it, the more I like the idea. But I also really like the idea of making out with/banging a girl and just making her boyfriend (or mine) watch. If only I actually knew anyone worth banging who would be down.
(Explicit) The girl I have a crush on is a little overweight, and she's constantly putting herself down because of it. One of the things she feels most insecure about is her thighs, which I totally understand, cause I used to be super insecure about my legs too (and I still am a little bit). But to tell the truth... I'd love nothing more than to go down on her and make her feel so good that she won't be able to help but squeeze her legs together and just crush me 😍💕 I mean it wouldn't hurt or anything, it'd be like a really tight hug... for my face. Too bad I can't tell her that.
i really miss having a real friend that i could talk to whenever i want to. i really miss having a real friend that who wants to hear my story without judging me or giving me a speech as if i need one. cause sometimes you just need a friend to hug you, an ear to listen to you, a friend that will stand by your side no matter what. l'm sick and tired being the one that always have to listen.. making a free time for them.. etc etc. but whenever i need a friend, they said they're busy.. or when they're not, they always giving me speech as if they know that's the right thing to do. please, you cannot control my life. you don't know what I'm feeling..you don't know what I'm going through. how can you know exactly what i feel when you don't listen???! i really need a friend. just a friend to talk to..that's all..😢😢😢
I hate breaks. I don't really have someone to do something with, because I'm too shy to make friends. Nobody ever asks if I want to spend the break with them, so I either have to "force" myself on them (which is always awkward because I just can't talk) or be alone. I sometimes pretend to have work to do and then just write some nonesens on some papers so I don't have to sit around staring at a wall like usual. I just wish I could skip the breaks and go home earlier instead.
Aside from my siblings, I don't really have friends. I get along very well with them all, but even though I'm a girl, my brother's the one I'm the closest with. I do have more in common with him than my sisters. But even aside from our interests, we can talk about almost anything to each other, like our problems and weird dreams and just whatever. Now, here is the weird part: a couple of times I've even talked to him a little about my crushes because I don't feel comfortable enough to tell anyone else. (And in the same conversations he's mentioned something about his crushes, too.) I'm feeling like I should make friends with other girls or talk to my sisters about it or something because even aside from the crush topic, I sometimes catch myself starting to talk about something that might be too girly and thus uninteresting for him. Idk, is it OK to talk about stuff like that to one's brother? I have asked him if it bothers him abd he said he didn't mind, but I just wonder... is it normal?
I am so grateful to have such a strong and loving support system